THE PHONE CALLS STOP ( Archived) (27)

He needs to be a man and step up and say. thats what i think

If it is indeed a chickenquit....

He needs to get to steppen OFF
Maybe he can keep company with The
Scarecrow, Tinman, Dorthy,


and Toto too

If he only had a heart

If it is a cell phone, his phone could have went out. Maybe he lost his job and could not afford the bills and he did not think of using the library's computer to let you know, or he could chicken out because he is afraid of meeting you or that he has someone else.

This isnt directed directly to your character Fanpark...just a generalization.

Why do we always assume there is somebody else right away???

Sometimes people simply decide they dont like another person and move on. I'm not saying it is the grown up way to handle things, but sometimes the simple truth is just that. Simple.

He could have used someone else's phone. He could have called from a phone booth.

I don't know what his reasons are; he may have a new girlfriend, he may have an old girlfriend or wife who caught him, he may have moved, he may be dead...who knows???

The point is...with the exception of being dead, he has NO excuse for doing what he did. He should have, at the very least, texted her and told her buh-bye. That would have been rude, too, but at least she'd know what happened.

Of course, (tikiguy...ahem) ...she should have seen this coming, shouldn't she? It's her fault this happened, isn't it? I mean, she was talking to him for two whole months!

No, the fact of the matter is, she had no way of knowing this guy was going to do this...and neither do I when guys do this and similar things to me, nor do any other woman, nor when women do it to men.

Fanperk, some guys are just JERKS.

If he doesn't come up with a reasonable explanation pretty soon I'd just forget about him. No sense in wasting time on anyone who doesn't even have enough courtesy and integrity to make a simple phone call or email.

Kansan....did you get loaded to go home, bro?


Apologies for the hijack....

This actually happened to me once. I was involved with someone, things were going great, we talked on the phone every day for hours on end, we exchanged emails, and chatted on IM till the weeee hours of the morning.

Then one day, I lost my job. I kept trying to find work to no avail. My internet got shut off without warning, so did my phone. The two were tied together, when one got disconnected the other did too.

I went to the library to let her know what happened, and on my way there, the transmission blows in my car!!

Nobody I knew had free long distance, and the ones who had long distance, would not let me make a call.

It took me two months to relocate, get another job, and fix my car. And get interned and phone service again. When I did, I called her first thing, no answer...then I get on the internet, and I find her. Here she has a new boyfriend.

I was a little ticked that after all the phone calls ect ect we shared, that she did not have enough faith in me to know that sooner or later I would have found a way to get in touch with her.

And yes, I could have wrote her a letter too. Only I did not have her mailing address at the time.

Now her and the boyfriend have broken up and we are gonna give it a second try. But in the back of my mind I am always going to wonder what will happen between us IF I should ever fall on hard times ever again?

My .02

You should explain to her that if this situation should arise again you want her to know that you haven't had enough of her etc.Make a plan of action should the situation arise again