smiley963: People on threads, would take them apart, and comment on it, totally acceptable, but they also comment on the person that had written the thread...
Ad hominem attacks are sanctioned on all serious forums. This is not a serious forum, but a lounge for fun and relaxation as a part of a dating site, so it seems that different rules apply here. I haven't spent much time here, but it seems that most members are here for many years, quarreled among themselves over and over again and some were even couples before (at least virtual ones), so no wonder why there's so much tension here.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Bellanna: Ad hominem attacks are sanctioned on all serious forums. This is not a serious forum, but a lounge for fun and relaxation as a part of a dating site, so it seems that different rules apply here. I haven't spent much time here, but it seems that most members are here for many years, quarreled among themselves over and over again and some were even couples before (at least virtual ones), so no wonder why there's so much tension here.
Thanks for your comment: And so accurate.... You have a very good grasp on what is going on here, it appears...
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