ChesneyChrist: I threw a boiler out the window just after my girlfriend broke up with me. But in my defence the connections were fiddly
I have a lot of patience but not when it comes to waiting....for a cab for over an hr for people who are late or don't bother to show up or call....I guess my patience runs out when consideration goes out the door....my time is just as valuable as anybody elses and for those who don't think so...they learn it pretty quickly.....
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: I have a lot of patience but not when it comes to waiting....for a cab for over an hr for people who are late or don't bother to show up or call....I guess my patience runs out when consideration goes out the door....my time is just as valuable as anybody elses and for those who don't think so...they learn it pretty quickly.....
not that I can recall but im sure that word has been thrown around a few time offline......I just simply don't care...I don't need anyone else to believe what I already know....;.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: not that I can recall but im sure that word has been thrown around a few time offline......I just simply don't care...I don't need anyone else to believe what I already know....;.
People with a different mindset, that do no believe in special abilities, frown upon people with them. I just wish they would stop the name-calling...
smiley963: People with a different mindset, that do no believe in special abilities, frown upon people with them. I just wish they would stop the name-calling...
don't let it bother you...you said it...if they haven't experienced it they don't believe it and here's the thing...they don't have to....they're believing it or not doesn't change it....it took me a long time to learn that and now I just have a quiet confidence about my gifts and abilities and it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks......I mostly keep things to myself and just roll with it.....
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: don't let it bother you...you said it...if they haven't experienced it they don't believe it and here's the thing...they don't have to....they're believing it or not doesn't change it....it took me a long time to learn that and now I just have a quiet confidence about my gifts and abilities and it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks......I mostly keep things to myself and just roll with it.....
Not many people knows about my abilities...and I'm trying to keep it that way...in real life...People do get very surprised when I say something just before they was about to say it, and it is said 'I was just going to say that'
smiley963: Not many people knows about my abilities...and I'm trying to keep it that way...in real life...People do get very surprised when I say something just before they was about to say it, and it is said 'I was just going to say that'
I have to actually stop myself from finishing other people's sentences because I know what they're gonna say and just let them actually talk......
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: I have to actually stop myself from finishing other people's sentences because I know what they're gonna say and just let them actually talk......
Lol...and they are totally pissed of with the situation...It is an invasion of their privacy, to the utmost...But it happens in business most...they cannot handle that you know so much...gives them the heebee jeebies...
mehhh....they can heebie and jeebie all they want....if I know I know...and that's that...mine are so ingrained in me that a lot of times in not even aware I know but it comes out anyway.....
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: mehhh....they can heebie and jeebie all they want....if I know I know...and that's that...mine are so ingrained in me that a lot of times in not even aware I know but it comes out anyway.....
Yes, it comes naturally, no trigger...you just say something to them, and they're totally astonished...I guess I can't really blame them...Nobody has done it to me...I guess over the years you do build up defences...
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Different situations affect different people differently...
In which situations:-
- Have you got the patience of a Saint...
- while in others you trip like an earth leakage in overload...