I'll help anyone willing to try whether they get ultimately fixed or not. Anyone not willing to try has no chance of being fixed and its wasted effort.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Track16: I'll help anyone willing to try whether they get ultimately fixed or not. Anyone not willing to try has no chance of being fixed and its wasted effort.
You Never know if the fix will work or not...so do you give up at the start already...?
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Track16: Depends on if they are genuinely willing to try, if they are, they got a chance then.
Come-on Track...They do not know ahead of time...How many keep going for rehabilitation kicking and screaming, and how many comes out of it...fixed...and for how long...?
smiley963: Come-on Track...They do not know ahead of time...How many keep going for rehabilitation kicking and screaming, and how many comes out of it...fixed...and for how long...?
Traditional rehab has a very low success rating. From what I seen, people do best when they want it and get support around them. Sometimes people fall of the wagon but as long as they are willing to get back on it and try to stay on it, they deserve support. Their behavior will tell you if they are really trying or not, know what to look for. If they are trying, I will support them, if they are not trying, I can't help them and will focus instead on someone who wants to be helped.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Track16: Traditional rehab has a very low success rating. From what I seen, people do best when they want it and get support around them. Sometimes people fall of the wagon but as long as they are willing to get back on it and try to stay on it, they deserve support. Their behavior will tell you if they are really trying or not, know what to look for. If they are trying, I will support them, if they are not trying, I can't help them and will focus instead on someone who wants to be helped.
Most of the time, people don't know what they want, and only with time, and the preparedness of themselves for themselves, and no-one else will they improve, some fast but most very slow...they will keep on giving up...but eventually they will make it...after most people had given up on them...!!! I don't push them...!!!
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Why do we all break up relationships,
because we think that there are better available...
How many times did you try,
before you found the better one...?