I'm not sure how to answer this. For the longest time I did not believe in God or that there even was a God, nor did I care much either way. However a few years ago, at one of my lowest points, a friend of mine gave me a book called "12 Great Confessions To Live By" - by Tommy Burchfield. Now I believe. No mater what happens in my life now, nobody and nothing can take away my faith.
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Joyce.... If you need one he'll be there.... If you don't then there won't be.... I believe it truly depends on your needs.... it sounds like you need one to make sense of your tragedy and that's ok.....
Try not to confuse your pain with your beliefs... they are separate....
Joyce, first of all, my condolences for your loss. It is a hard teaching, acceptance of any tragic event is the only way I know of to get beyond the pain and to start healing.
Your question of why "good" God "allows" us to experience tragic events is well taken. If everything were "perfect," we'd probably be so bored that we'd all committ suicide. But this is the price we pay to have Free Will. This is going to be very hard to grasp as you are just beginning to start your spiritual journey, and what I espouse is certainly "spiritually incorrect."
I do not resonate with the major world religions because I see them nothing more than power structures and controlling agents. You can see how well civilization has progressed with these religions. They are exclusive, static, intolerant, and unable to generate new ideas. Religions exist because there IS another unseen dimension that certain people have peeked into. A "spititual" realm and experience that has been accessed over the centuries. This "experience," when codified and written in stone becomes "religion." That genuine metaphyisical experience becomes a counterfeit one, and is filled with "faith" and dogma. A dry, waterlesss canal.
The failure of Organizied Religion can be traced to its exclusiveness and and belief that we are all separate beings awaiting "judgment" and cursed with "Original Sin" by a "Loving God." As if God were a person that "needs" something from us. As if He has nothing better to do than sit in Heaven and take notes on everything you do, gleefully casting you in a lake of fire for eternity just for using the Free Will He gave you, or for using His Name in vain.
My thought is this. God doesn't exist in the clouds surrounded by angels that worship Him forever. But there IS a Creation. All That Is. ISNESS. Me. You. Everything else. All Connected by Love. Nothing else exists. Separation is Illusion. Evil is Illusion. "Bad things" happen because we're in physical bodies that age and die. But our bodies are only a tiny fraction of what we REALLY ARE. We are Spirit having an Earthly experience. Grieve no more for your grandson, for only his body has "died." His Spirit, his TRUE SELF, still lives, feels your grief, and watches over you with love.
So be at Peace, Dear One. And know that your Lord will always be with you, "Even to the end of time."
First of all: my deepest regards. Your message send tears to my eyes. I lost a lot of people: my father, mother, all grandparents and more. But most difficult was to loose my daughter after only 2 months. She had a rare illness, the doctors were not able to find out in time. She was in an incubator, like her older brother. With him I had contact, washing my hands, then with alcohol, thru a little hole. I would take his hand, smaller then the top of my index finger, and then I would try to "talk" to him, like telepathy: "Come on, fight, fight!" He turned at looked at me in such an angry way... He made it, now 17 years old. With his sister, now she would be 15, I did the same, but she also turned and looked straight in my eyes! I "felt" she "talked" back to me saying: "Do I really HAVE to?". Everything fell away from me, hard to describe... I told her she didn't have to, if it was to difficult. The next day she passed on... I carried her small white coffin to her final resting place. The hardest, toughest meters in my life... I was very mad at God, started to curse Him. But I think I understand now much more. The bible is written by men. In time I think a lot has been lost in translation, etc. Somewhere it states: "Nobody goes to heaven except thru me". So what about the Indians, who never even saw a bible? I end with a suggestion that may give you some relieve: I very much like the movie "City of angels", everytime I watch it it brings something spiritual to me. Bless you and I hope you find the same as I did or better. Vaya con Dios
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