Taralyn: Rohaan, YOU say what YOU want to say and mean it the way YOU mean it. Everyone else does. IF someone wants to nitpick what you say, they could go to hell.
Ain't nobody got time for dat!!
” talking” in script can be problematic because you can’t read facial expressions, body language, or hear tones and inflections, etc...I don’t think people should go to hell, but I do think the word “ nitpick” is a bit negative.( to be, or to use) I’m OK with people questioning what I’ve said, such as, ie: “rohaan, what do you mean, ‘ charm’”, and then I could say , “ well, there is affected charm, and natural charm”.. and so on. Still, I feel that I, also, don’t know what to say or if it’s going to upset someone. Shall I not participate, then? We’re all kind of in the same boat, so I will just wish all peace and friendship. What can I say?
rohaan: ” talking” in script can be problematic because you can’t read facial expressions, body language, or hear tones and inflections, etc...I don’t think people should go to hell, but I do think the word “ nitpick” is a bit negative.( to be, or to use) I’m OK with people questioning what I’ve said, such as, ie: “rohaan, what do you mean, ‘ charm’”, and then I could say , “ well, there is affected charm, and natural charm”.. and so on. Still, I feel that I, also, don’t know what to say or if it’s going to upset someone. Shall I not participate, then? We’re all kind of in the same boat, so I will just wish all peace and friendship. What can I say?
Basically Ro, people' s attitudes belong to them whether they want to "own them" or not … You don't have to endorse someone else's attitude and be drawn into their way of engaging into a conversation, agreement or disagreement... People "own" how they are and it belongs to them … you need not carry it as your own luggage …
Also some people are more abrupt than others how they express themselves … it's not reflection on you ...
Although completely different characters you are both authentic people
Selenite: Basically Ro, people' s attitudes belong to them whether they want to "own them" or not … You don't have to endorse someone else's attitude and be drawn into their way of engaging into a conversation, agreement or disagreement... People "own" how they are and it belongs to them … you need not carry it as your own luggage …
Also some people are more abrupt than others how they express themselves … it's not reflection on you ...
Although completely different characters you are both authentic people
just checked this on my way out to the beach...so glad I did. You’re awesome...it’ll make the day ( and it’s sunny) much, much better. Tons of blessings to you, you do much to take the blues away... I’ll be gone for hours...no cell, computer, just the sea and the sand..( love looking in the tide pools...)
rohaan: just checked this on my way out to the beach...so glad I did. You’re awesome...it’ll make the day ( and it’s sunny) much, much better. Tons of blessings to you, you do much to take the blues away... I’ll be gone for hours...no cell, computer, just the sea and the sand..( love looking in the tide pools...)
The beach was nice..google “Sunset Bay Beach, Coos Bay, OR.” You will see why I love it here so much. Tide was “ in”, so no pools, and it stayed, quite high this time. Got a gourmet coffee on the way home.
I’m still bummed there’s no Shore Acres lights this year!
Stay out of Walmart for a few days, KVAL is reporting infection sourced from there.
hey Stan..don’t use Walmart very much, but thanx for the heads- up. Won’t stay on here long, computer is wacko turning off for no reason, so, good night..
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YOU say what YOU want to say and mean it the way YOU mean it. Everyone else does.
IF someone wants to nitpick what you say, they could go to hell.
Ain't nobody got time for dat!!