sometimes people try to hurt us, not because we deserve it, but because they’re hurt themselves, and they don’t know how to deal with it except by lashing out,
Bid64: sometimes people try to hurt us, not because we deserve it, but because they’re hurt themselves, and they don’t know how to deal with it except by lashing out,
It's just a thought as we don't actually know what someone's been through and some people get all the help and other people get none. In the first world those who don't have any real problems are still in the majority, but we want to hear the words "deal with it" from someone who has dealt with worse. Marie Antoinette said deal with it and how did she cope with that guillotine? Not well.
And you know, even if you have dealt with worse it's still more inspiring to see how much harder it is for them to deal with things. A rookie going into battle has to be a lot braver than the veteran.
But at the same time we can do too much. Women receive likes as though they were about to die in battle, mash your face into the keyboard and somebody will upvote it and it must be nice to know you always have that basis of support. Women complain about the glass ceiling they don't complain about all the cracks in society not being wide enough, why can't I be homeless like the old man down at the seamans mission? I say all this because men in the west are lonely and persecuted, it's gone beyond Homer Simpson in the 1990s what an idiot men are into quite a vicious misandry that really is out to harm us, and more than this the civilisation itself is on the verge of collapse.
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