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Jan 14, 2023 8:45 AM CST Red Flags
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
Being fickle with ones feelings RED FLAG!
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Jan 18, 2023 5:19 PM CST Red Flags
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
Projection!!!!! Big assed red flag!

Projectionist=
According to Karen R. Koenig, M. Ed, LCSW, projection refers to unconsciously taking unwanted emotions or traits you don't like about yourself and attributing them to someone else. A common example is a cheating spouse who suspects their partner is being unfaithful.
very mad
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Jan 20, 2023 9:33 AM CST Red Flags
EricT1981
EricT1981EricT1981Badger, South Dakota USA2 Threads 51 Posts
How about these for red flags:

: "I'm fully vaccinated with all my boosters and my pronouns are she/her." If I wanted to date a mindless sheep, this 27year old would be perfect!
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Jan 20, 2023 2:31 PM CST Red Flags
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
EricT1981: How about these for red flags:

: "I'm fully vaccinated with all my boosters and my pronouns are she/her." If I wanted to date a mindless sheep, this 27year old would be perfect!
There are many mindless sheep out there and most do not use the pronouns of she/her because they have been taught different or, just woke up one day and decided it should be otherwise.
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Jan 20, 2023 4:33 PM CST Red Flags
GullyFoyle
GullyFoyleGullyFoyleSuperposition, New York USA23 Threads 5 Polls 293 Posts
A_chromosome: Holy Cow!!!
Yeah that is pretty bad!

I am gaming friends with someone who is cultish but we don't talk about it, it makes me uncomfortable so we just talk about the game we are playing at the time
As they say that is just the beginning.
I have lead a very colorful life and in so doing encountered many colorful people.
Much like those in Deadwood or Black sails.


blushing
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Feb 12, 2023 7:59 PM CST Red Flags
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
EricT1981: How about these for red flags:

: "I'm fully vaccinated with all my boosters and my pronouns are she/her." If I wanted to date a mindless sheep, this 27year old would be perfect!
Wonder if your local seeker ever found your love....
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Feb 13, 2023 9:11 AM CST Red Flags
EricT1981
EricT1981EricT1981Badger, South Dakota USA2 Threads 51 Posts
I believe she found some dude with extremely low testosterone and (therefore) strong authority-worshipping tendencies?
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Feb 18, 2023 10:45 AM CST Red Flags
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
EricT1981: I believe she found some dude with extremely low testosterone and (therefore) strong authority-worshipping tendencies?
HOLY COW!
So paying for those types of services are just the same as the roll of the dice as a non charging service.
Sounds like red flags left and right to me.
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Feb 18, 2023 11:51 AM CST Red Flags
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
And to be honest one thing to cling onto is the low testosterone of our aging population. That should curb the excesses of war and dictatorship the problem is more the other way, if we were invaded we could rely on them to do absolutely nothing like a woman. We can rely on western people to catfight and backstab rather than die in a war.
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Feb 18, 2023 7:22 PM CST Red Flags
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
ChesneyChrist: And to be honest one thing to cling onto is the low testosterone of our aging population. That should curb the excesses of war and dictatorship the problem is more the other way, if we were invaded we could rely on them to do absolutely nothing like a woman. We can rely on western people to catfight and backstab rather than die in a war.
, if we were invaded we could rely on them to do absolutely nothing like a woman<< On behalf of us women? I will tell you to eff off " I did not say it so I should not get banned but really?! You have a lot of nerve bucko!
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Feb 18, 2023 7:26 PM CST Red Flags
Possessive/clingy. I like to spend time with who I am with, I don't play the hide away game, I have no problem spending the day with my so. I do however want a occasional moment to myself, say to have a smoke or to use the bathroom even. She attached herself to my side and every step I made, she was there literally. God help me if I wanted to go out for a hour by myself to hang out with the by's or something (healthy relationships means having a little time apart sometimes). The relationship I was in prior was a case of her being too distant so at first, the time together was great but it was too much the other way, it suffocated me.
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Feb 18, 2023 10:13 PM CST Red Flags
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
A_chromosome: What red flags have you had that you knew were there but, decided to ignore them and continue with a relationship?
This could be on here or, in real life.

On here my first one is not to be able to talk on the phone after a couple of months of building a text rapport which, is a disaster in the making.
Wow, well first off thank you, for sharing.
Yeah I can see where you are coming from we ALL need time away, I mean too much of anything is too much. Is there something else I am missing? laugh
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Feb 25, 2023 7:13 PM CST Red Flags
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
Track16: Possessive/clingy. I like to spend time with who I am with, I don't play the hide away game, I have no problem spending the day with my so. I do however want a occasional moment to myself, say to have a smoke or to use the bathroom even. She attached herself to my side and every step I made, she was there literally. God help me if I wanted to go out for a hour by myself to hang out with the by's or something (healthy relationships means having a little time apart sometimes). The relationship I was in prior was a case of her being too distant so at first, the time together was great but it was too much the other way, it suffocated me.
I accidently quoted myself, derp me.
Yeah nobody should control someone else's time that way.
We all need a little time away from each other, it is only human to want to be an individual doesn't mean we don't want to be with someone but to be by either ourselves or, with someone else meaning friends, family.
Some people are too controlling and that is never a good thing and, is a def red flag.
I get where you are coming from, tried to explain this to an ex and he went to the extreme of I didn't love him anymore, really?
So yeah I get it.
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