After 10 years (27)

Jan 2, 2024 5:17 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Hello! I used to be an active user here about 10 years ago. I met a lot of friends, and I even met my ex-husband here. Unfortunately, after 10 years, it didn't work out, but I still keep in touch with my friends from here.wave
Jan 2, 2024 7:51 AM CST After 10 years
Hi Dani, welcome back to CS.
Jan 2, 2024 8:21 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
chatillion: Hi Dani, welcome back to CS.
Hi there! Thanks, I hope to meet again all the O.G. of this site . This site used to be fun,it seems like scammers are ubitiqous now unlike before.crying
Jan 2, 2024 9:42 AM CST After 10 years
CS is not quite the same as it was 10 years ago, scammers have really moved in and taken over. Still though, its cs and always nice to have someone thats not a scammer back in the pot again wave
Jan 2, 2024 9:51 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Track16: CS is not quite the same as it was 10 years ago, scammers have really moved in and taken over. Still though, its cs and always nice to have someone thats not a scammer back in the pot again
thanks, It seems they've really taken over this app. I've received heaps of messages from them. Yonks ago, we used to make fun of them; they never joined the thread or the blog. But now, they're everywhere here.
Jan 2, 2024 9:52 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290: thanks, It seems they've really taken over this app. I've received heaps of messages from them. Yonks ago, we used to make fun of them; they never joined the thread or the blog. But now, they're everywhere here.
What I like to do is when they are looking for your contact info, I will write back telling them I don't like talking online and for them to call me on my landline, than I give the # for my local police station. I tell them to ask for Hugh Jazz :)
Jan 2, 2024 9:56 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Track16: What I like to do is when they are looking for your contact info, I will write back telling them I don't like talking online and for them to call me on my landline, than I give the # for my local police station. I tell them to ask for Hugh Jazz :)
That's quite smart. I just read and blocked them. They haven't changed their endearment; they're still using the word 'dear,' and their grammar sucks.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 2, 2024 9:59 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290: That's quite smart. I just read and blocked them. They haven't changed their endearment; they're still using the word 'dear,' and their grammar sucks.
lol yup, still the same. No reason you can't have some fun with them though wine
Jan 2, 2024 10:01 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Track16: lol yup, still the same. No reason you can't have some fun with them though
They even hit disagree button.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 2, 2024 10:04 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290: They even hit disagree button.
lol yeah, there seems to be some kind of like/dislike war going on here. They won't say anything on the thread, but hide behind the likes. At least on fb, you see who liked/disliked your post lol.
Jan 2, 2024 10:07 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290: They even hit disagree button.
Yea try to ignore the haters.
You also have blogs in worst case lol

Welcome back. I returned here in 2021 myself, again looking for love,
after a 8 year brake.
I also found one here (in 2012) whom it didn't work out with but we're still good friends.

purple heart
Jan 2, 2024 10:07 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Track16: lol yeah, there seems to be some kind of like/dislike war going on here. They won't say anything on the thread, but hide behind the likes. At least on fb, you see who liked/disliked your post lol.
spot onrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing That's what trolls do—hide behind. I bet the CS staff are also new; perhaps they are daughters or sons of old staff.sad flower sad flower
Jan 2, 2024 10:11 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Grandsiozzie: Yea try to ignore the haters.
You also have blogs in worst case lol

Welcome back. I returned here in 2021 myself, again looking for love,
after a 8 year brake.
I also found one here (in 2012) whom it didn't work out with but we're still good friends.
Sad to hear that! I hope you find new love here. I hope things will be the same for those people who are genuinely looking for true love (does it even exist?).sad flower angel
Jan 2, 2024 10:12 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290: spot on That's what trolls do—hide behind. I bet the CS staff are also new; perhaps they are daughters or sons of old staff.
I don't think they even bother to monitor it here much anymore. I seen stuff that should have been taken down there for days. I think there are so few real people here now, and chances are the mods have other stuff on the go, this place don't get the attention it needs sometimes.

Trolls are people who are mentally ill, but have not addressed their illness. I know, I have mental illness too but I addresses it everyday, the trolls do the opposite, they dwell in it. I feel a spot of pity for trolls to tell the truth. How miserable must your life be in order for you to go online and harass strangers who never said or done anything to you. These trolls are really ill and they need help.
Jan 2, 2024 10:21 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Track16: I don't think they even bother to monitor it here much anymore. I seen stuff that should have been taken down there for days. I think there are so few real people here now, and chances are the mods have other stuff on the go, this place don't get the attention it needs sometimes.

Trolls are people who are mentally ill, but have not addressed their illness. I know, I have mental illness too but I addresses it everyday, the trolls do the opposite, they dwell in it. I feel a spot of pity for trolls to tell the truth. How miserable must your life be in order for you to go online and harass strangers who never said or done anything to you. These trolls are really ill and they need help.
This site is better than other sites; perhaps it's not monitored as much because it's free, but it has the potential to be a multimillion-dollar app. Charging users could help minimize scammers. I've had my fair share of experiences with them years ago, and I hope they seek help. I don't think this is the right place for them; professional assistance might be more beneficial.sad flower
Jan 2, 2024 10:24 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290: This site is better than other sites; perhaps it's not monitored as much because it's free, but it has the potential to be a multimillion-dollar app. Charging users could help minimize scammers. I've had my fair share of experiences with them years ago, and I hope they seek help. I don't think this is the right place for them; professional assistance might be more beneficial.
They do need professional help, but they will probably never get it. Some people like to dwell in misery, its like old leather, they are comfortable with it and don't want to change it.
Jan 2, 2024 10:28 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Track16: They do need professional help, but they will probably never get it. Some people like to dwell in misery, its like old leather, they are comfortable with it and don't want to change it.
I suppose we are the ones who will avoid them.
Jan 2, 2024 10:56 AM CST After 10 years
Dani_290: I suppose we are the ones who will avoid them.
Best policy. They will only drag you down to their level then beat you with experience.
Jan 2, 2024 12:18 PM CST After 10 years
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
Track16: Best policy. They will only drag you down to their level then beat you with experience.
I do like this adage. You hit the nail on the head.laugh
Jan 2, 2024 2:35 PM CST After 10 years
Dani_290: I do like this adage. You hit the nail on the head.
A psychiatrist would make a career studying the troll you see online. With most of them, if you were to meet them face to face, 99% would be too mousy to engage with you. Its easy to hide behind a screen and be nasty, you don't have to worry about anything happening to you. In real life, a lot of them probably feel inadequate and unable to find any kind of place for themselves so they go online and take out their frustrations on others while staying safe. Makes them feel like they are in control and they are calling the shots.
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