Those are OK, and I like the support everyone gives. I am talking about the ones that start out by criticizing other on CS, why do they do that? Do they just like to provoke people to criticize them back?
ScarletLondon, Greater London, England UK384 posts
Hi debbie.
Well I think its 2 make themselves feel better by putting themselves above or bringing other ppl down 2 their level. I guess its a human thing no1 wants 2 suffer alone. ppl do it in real life as well.
I think we all through that at one time or another and it is just human nature to be looking for someone rather they are ready or not and missery loves company so iy all others are misserable they are not a lone
I hear a lot of hurt, pain and sometimes just plain old grumpiness in some of the threads, and perhaps, at one time, we had the intention of finding a partner, or company, or a desire to find like minded people, the loves of our lives, whatever....one thing I have found here..is a community.
I'm with outdoorannie on this one. I came here to get to know some women and find that special someone I could share all my good with. I have yet to find out anything other than who everyone want to sleep with.
A lot of people don't even come here to get a date, but just to chat in the forums. There are plenty of dating sites out there. My profile is certainly not intended to maximize my chances of getting a date. I just wanted a place to be able to talk candidly about things.
When a thread is started in such a way then it's simply sheer stupidity!
Having said that, there are many intelligent and interesting threads which provoke debate and at times critical remarks are naturally made. Sometimes it is constructive criticism, which should be accepted in the manner it was given and not taken to heart, but often it may be cruel or personal.
I wouldn't worry about it, most of us have already made our minds up, rightly or wrongly, about our fellow members based on threads and posts.
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