Why dont women want a man in the military? (37)
CorpWiley235Vernon, USA4 Threads 21 PostsIt hurts alot when you think about it. Girls just plain dont want a guy in the Military. Even when you go places, they give you a weird look or a hi how are you and good bye. I have talked to my buddies and they noticed the same thing. We Want LOVE TOO!!!! LOL Please help!
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When you kinda think about it your right, but the other hand people think about the part its a job with money, we are trained and alot of us live. BUT... there is a 50/50 depending on where you go things do happen. My friend is over in Iraq and he told me over the phone that he thinks he is going to die alone. which would suck. But i thank you for your honest oppinion.
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no prob.
see i think right now women think if they get involed with a man in the militay the man would endup in Iraq and how many of these couples would have never made it to really get to know eachother, or really get to know eachother and paln on marriage and never make it or paln a family and then the children will never really know his or her parent that is in war time
see i think right now women think if they get involed with a man in the militay the man would endup in Iraq and how many of these couples would have never made it to really get to know eachother, or really get to know eachother and paln on marriage and never make it or paln a family and then the children will never really know his or her parent that is in war time
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your right. I guess war better be over soon. I thank you for responding, it makes me under why. And Here I thought the uniforms made us look fat! LOL :) Thank you
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Thanks to you Guys and Gals!
I have read many profiles that the girls want a military man.
Some of these girls that give weird looks are just dumbfounded and don't know how to handle it. They say hi and run. Its not rejection it is just more than they can deal with at the moment.
If you are close enough. If a girl looks and her eyes widen and her pupils open. She then looks away quick, then takes a quick peak, blushes....she thinks your it. Help her through the situation and she will be there.
Body language! read up!
Thanks!
I have read many profiles that the girls want a military man.
Some of these girls that give weird looks are just dumbfounded and don't know how to handle it. They say hi and run. Its not rejection it is just more than they can deal with at the moment.
If you are close enough. If a girl looks and her eyes widen and her pupils open. She then looks away quick, then takes a quick peak, blushes....she thinks your it. Help her through the situation and she will be there.
Body language! read up!
Thanks!
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So many girls really dont know how to handle the situation or is it too much to overcome at one time? I have had a lot of girls look at me and would not stop so that mean they there intrested? I am not really good as you can to body language.
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Cute, cute, cute. You've just come across the wrong girls. Never thought of the military as a deterent. Gonna ponder that one for a minute.
Oh, and just a sidenote, because of my brother having been in the military, he wasn't exactly the settling down kind at that point. lol To put it lightly and politely. Easily stereotyped as such.
Oh, and just a sidenote, because of my brother having been in the military, he wasn't exactly the settling down kind at that point. lol To put it lightly and politely. Easily stereotyped as such.
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I thank you for the Complament, your pretty hott yourself. For me I have totally different fews as to settleing down. I am looking to but i have to meet someone first. Many of the guys now, because the war many military men want to settledown. From our stand point the war has been too long and we would like to live normal lives when we come home. Just to say from our stand point.
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i think froggy hit it right on the head. getting into a relationship and having a 50/50 chance that your mate might die can really scare a woman. anyone really. so don't take it personal. i know a lot of woman who have preservations about dating a police officer or a firefighter because of the risk of their occupation. but, love is love. when you find it, you'll know.
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I think you hit the nail right on the head Crash...one in every port who the hell wants that! I know it's not fare to stereotype but there it is! People don't like to gamble with their hearts unless they think the odds are in their favor!
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My first boyfriend was in the Navy. He joined during college and I stayed at college. It was very difficult for me to have any kind of social life. I had a boyfriend who was not at my side and guys continued to hit on me. I left college and went home and lived my life with family and not around singles. We wrote letters and sent pictures. I saw my boyfriend when he was in port - about every six months. After a year, he disappeared - no letter - no apology - and no, he was not dead or injured. I was devastated.
Long distance relationships are very difficult, especially when you are young. And the temptations and loneliness- for both parties makes for a tough road that many do not want to follow.
No one likes a Dear John letter..
Long distance relationships are very difficult, especially when you are young. And the temptations and loneliness- for both parties makes for a tough road that many do not want to follow.
No one likes a Dear John letter..
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Most often they go past quick to get away from the situation being afraid you will say something and they make a fool of themselves. Watch them and see if they hang around and look. Some will run all the way home, then think about that guy they saw for the next week.
Break the ice before they get away, make them feel no pressure...(don't use one liners or put the moves own)..
..they have plenty to handle as it is.
You have to be natural and confident...ask for information with an open ended question. ( open ended question is one that calls for much reply...not a quick short answer)
Example!
Mam, can you please tell me which is the best place to eat and what you think are some of their best dishes..I'm new here.
Not!
Is this a good place to eat. ....( Yes, then shes gone!)
Be ready with the next question....(she gets comfortable the more she talks)....be nice...be respectful....in the right moment...ask her to join you....ect..
Break the ice before they get away, make them feel no pressure...(don't use one liners or put the moves own)..
..they have plenty to handle as it is.
You have to be natural and confident...ask for information with an open ended question. ( open ended question is one that calls for much reply...not a quick short answer)
Example!
Mam, can you please tell me which is the best place to eat and what you think are some of their best dishes..I'm new here.
Not!
Is this a good place to eat. ....( Yes, then shes gone!)
Be ready with the next question....(she gets comfortable the more she talks)....be nice...be respectful....in the right moment...ask her to join you....ect..
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Geeze I'm sorry I didn't mean for you to take it personally
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a shock because I was so blunt of because you have never thought of that before?
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Sweetie you asked and you have received honest answers, tinkerbell is right on the dot. It is hard enough to get into a relationship with someone with the unknown written all over, to add one more risky factor to it.
My cousin is the service and just got sent to Kuwait for a year he got married few month ago and for his wife is has being really though.
Wish you the best of luck, be safe!.
Take care,
Yami.
My cousin is the service and just got sent to Kuwait for a year he got married few month ago and for his wife is has being really though.
Wish you the best of luck, be safe!.
Take care,
Yami.
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