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If someone has been dumped, chances are, they want them back as a lover and attempting to convert to simply friends will only prolong the agony of coming to terms with the split. They say that until you accept the relationship is over, you'll probably keep reading "secret" messages into everything connected to your ex. The best way to get over an ex is to keep your distance, sever all connection, even if for a few months, then take the time to decide whether or not a friendship is possible, or even desirable.
Do you agree?