stood by vows, forgive or leave... (18)
If you mean infidelity......Leave...I did the same...No trust=no marriage in my eyes!!!!!!!!!!
You get one chance with me and that's it and then there's the door!!!!!!!!
You get one chance with me and that's it and then there's the door!!!!!!!!
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I agree with Native_grl.
You just don't cheat on someone you love. Not only is there no trust, but there's obviously a loss of respect and love.
If there were problems in the relationship she should have brought those up and dealt with them. You just don't cheat. You end the relationship you're in first if you're not happy with it.
That's how I view it. Cheating just NOT an option.
You just don't cheat on someone you love. Not only is there no trust, but there's obviously a loss of respect and love.
If there were problems in the relationship she should have brought those up and dealt with them. You just don't cheat. You end the relationship you're in first if you're not happy with it.
That's how I view it. Cheating just NOT an option.
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Have to agree with those above
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I agree ,she should have said bye or worked it out.
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20 years, that took some balls, 14 for me hurts like hell, but in the end guess it makes us better people, keep hold of your morals, live by them, you never know whats going to happen to you next.
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Wish I would have been as brave as you I forgave and went through it several more times wasted a lot of years but I'm out now. Leopards don't usually change their spots, once a cheater always a cheater.RUN!
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mine was for 18 years like you said once the trust is gone so goes the respect for that person so it is time to move on do them a favor once you lose your respect they have already gotten the result of their actions and it will be their loss not yours
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its the betrayal that hurt the most, scars you know!! how do you learn to trust again in a relationship, like other people said in forums, trust is gone, where's the love.. leopards dont change their spots,
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Yeah it's the betrayal and it makes you feel unwanted and undesirable. I was married for 22 years and it is hard to trust again but not everyone is a cheater. Hopefully you'll meet a great woman who will love only you it's what we all want. Don't let your past ruin your future! Trust until proven wrong!
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thanks warmhearted,
I have great little boy at of it, he is not even 4 years old, now that's a hard job. I went from truck driving to the broom and house hold cleaning, I got my future cut out for me now.. so will be asking for advice in this field...
I have great little boy at of it, he is not even 4 years old, now that's a hard job. I went from truck driving to the broom and house hold cleaning, I got my future cut out for me now.. so will be asking for advice in this field...
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Sorry for your pain. I will say prayers for you and your child's happiness. I agree with the concept of one strike, your out. Cheating is unforgivable to me. Good luck!
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Y'all were lucky in a way, at least yours cheated on you with a human being.
In the words of Dolly(?) "Whiskey, if you were a woman..." only it was beer. Can't fight that!
Actually I was the lucky one, I found something way better!
In the words of Dolly(?) "Whiskey, if you were a woman..." only it was beer. Can't fight that!
Actually I was the lucky one, I found something way better!
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Me too, what you and Ken said!
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I'm gone! Right now!!Without a moment's hesitation!
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thanks I was starting to question my own beliefs, thought maybe I was the weak one, and didnt have the strenght to see it through. I made the right decision.
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If one is married for 1 or 20 years, if your partner breaks that vow, Do you forgive or leave...I chose to leave..trust was gone..
my vows were for 20 years. have child, but I'm his primary carer.