Am I the only woman who likes the manto be a little younger? ( Archived) (44)

I'm not that old, under 40 & over 35. But I don't go for guys over 35. In fact I even like em a little younger. Is there anything wrong with that???? I mean--I'm still very young at heart, mind, & body

I am young at heart too. But no more younger ones for me. Been there done that. Hum mmm, nope...Not gonna.

Was more work than I wanted.
Kat

Nothing at all wrong with it, i like older women myself and find that i get scorned upon for it so, its a tough one to call.

No complaints from the under 35 crew...

I am 41 yrs old, and always liked older guys...that is until I fell in love with a handsome CS guy....he is almost 34 yrs old....and loves older women.

Middle age rules!


Angel

I guess I better tell you tha he was almost 14 years younger than me. Too much difference. He wanted to keep doing what I had already done. His thoughts were too teenage-like for me.
Kat

Are you kidding?? There is nothing wrong with dating younger guys! In fact if we were all smart, it would become the norm. Go for it and enjoy it while you can!

;)

Let me shave 2 years off my profile and get back to you..

You're definitely not the only woman who likes a younger man.

In fact, that's a pretty common.

But I think you're really doing yourself an injustice if you go by numbers.

Just as you claim to feel younger than your numerical age, so do some men.

I clearly remember when I was 30. I was working at a company where another man was also 30. It was his birthday and he was completely devastated by turning 30. He couldn’t believe that he was so ‘old’.

Well, from my perspective at the time that man could have easily passed for 50! He looked extremely older than me even though we were precisely the same age. Moreover, I didn’t think of 30 as being old at all. It meant absolutely nothing to me to turn 30. I still felt like a 20-year-old. And when I looked in the mirror I saw a young man, not an old man at all.

So numbers don’t mean much.

I might also mention, that my last girlfriend was 46, I was 56. Yet she told me that I made her feel like a young girl more than any other man she had every been with. And not by comparison with my age either. She said that I was more fun to be with and acted much ‘less stuffy’ and serious than guys she dated who were closer to her own age.

I’m a boy at heart and always will be. Mentally I’m still a young man for sure. In fact, I’m also very fortunate to have a body that doesn’t show it’s age much either. So numbers can be really deceiving.

I know for a fact, that when women on the Internet see my numerical age of 57 then think (too old for me). But when I meet women in person on the street and they have no clue how old I am, then don’t seem to think that at all.

One problem with the Internet is that it does force your age to become a highly visible number.