What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player? ( Archived) (11)

May 17, 2007 3:07 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
merlyn
merlynmerlynLauderhill, Florida USA2 Threads 36 Posts
What's the dividing line?confused
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May 17, 2007 3:10 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
For one thing , "players" tell each of several women that she is the one and only love of his life. I think once you start lying you've crossed the great divide.
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May 17, 2007 3:29 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
bookumdanom1
bookumdanom1bookumdanom1Corinth, Mississippi USA2 Threads 1,262 Posts
Using & lying....sigh crying wave
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May 17, 2007 5:23 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
A player can never get enough dates or say no.
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May 17, 2007 5:26 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
I think, as with most things, honesty!!! Being a Player usually means there is a hidden agenda, just wanting to date would mean you would have made that clear to those involved and just dating would be by mutual acceptance.

I am puzzled as to why you would ask?? Thinking of being a Player perhaps? scold There are more than enough around, thank you!
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May 17, 2007 6:12 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
quiescent
quiescentquiescentsomewhere, USA19 Threads 1,199 Posts
I thought dating was getting to know someone, being friends, options to date others as well, upfront honesty.

Players: motives are deceptive, manipulating, uncaring, and selfish.
(really pitiful)

What's the truth here?

dunno
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May 17, 2007 6:15 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Exactly!! You are, of course, quite right! thumbs up wave
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May 17, 2007 6:15 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
sexysweeti
sexysweetisexysweetiClinton, USA22 Threads 1,788 Posts
I agree, quite pitiful...kick their buts to the curb...they actually do have psychological issues and I just don't have the patience for it anymore. Show yourself up front with honesty and consistency or I will figure you out quickly and not waste my time.
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May 18, 2007 12:08 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
DogMaI
DogMaIDogMaISartell, Minnesota USA17 Threads 1 Polls 2,729 Posts
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Of basketball, soccer, uno, checkers, scrabble, trivial pursuit, tag, football, halo, Forza motorsports, and occasionally Karoke revolution. Go figure I'll sing karoke if it's competative.dunno grin peace
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May 18, 2007 12:28 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
loam1
loam1loam1johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa36 Threads 176 Posts
both want to win in the end
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May 18, 2007 12:29 PM CST What's the difference between just wanting to date and being a player?
loam1
loam1loam1johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa36 Threads 176 Posts
both wants to win
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