for me its an overall look. their presence and the effect they have in a space.
then the eyes. then mouth (they gotta have clean teeth!)
the mind would be something very important, but not always the first thing i notice, especially if they happen to be good liars, or im just going on appearences and havent actually spoken to them yet!
Mind connection definitive plus, eyes and eyeball to eyeball contact (not what many males do when they meet and stare straight at your chest (and I have DDs lol) and say nice to meet you)
And of course a gorgeous smile - I live in a tropical environment so if their shirts are off nice pecs can go a long way
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For me it is their eyes...