i think honesty is key..most people start off a relationship trying to impress each other and not really being real about who they are...then when all the smoke clears you are left with the real person and nothing but doubts and regrets..we all have our dirt..some dirt piles are bigger than others but regardless if you are wearing white any dirt pile will get you dirty..the woman that won my heart is an open book..she tells me everything and i love the fact that i can do the same..its funny but the more honest she is with me the more i see her beauty..thats how it works for me..
bajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados3,724 posts
Work makes a relationship work. Take the time to get to know him/her and then remember that people change and grow so you never know it all and need to keep on learning.
Hi Lion my sister says you are one of the best ones here,says tell you hi.Also I believe compatibility.It would be like putting dog and cat together if u dont have similar interests.
Yup...compatibility, mutual respect and trust and both have to work on the relationship. If it is not mutual then it becomes one-sided and pointless to be in the relationship.
lets put in things they like hide that can wreck a relationship,drinking and drug use..If you do them then get a counselor for both one to understand why they are doing them.And the other person has learn not to be an enabler.
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