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Jun 14, 2007 11:31 PM CST Opinions again
Michael1
Michael1Michael1Norwalk, Connecticut USA4 Threads 4 Posts
Ever been cheated on- if so how long was it before you let your self trust again?
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Jun 15, 2007 12:42 AM CST Opinions again
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
yes. 1 year
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Jul 13, 2007 12:57 PM CST Opinions again
lovely1971
lovely1971lovely1971Rosemount, Minnesota USA3 Threads 105 Posts
Definitely been cheated on....Never trusted the fool again....I have a hard time with handing out trust to men because as soon as I see a behavior that mimicks one my ex displayed...I go into "he's a player" mode and jump to the conclusion that he is the same... It is something I need to work on still, but I will never be played again.
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Jul 13, 2007 12:58 PM CST Opinions again
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
4 yrs ago and still don't totally trust anyone
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Jul 13, 2007 12:59 PM CST Opinions again
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
thumbs up
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Jul 13, 2007 1:00 PM CST Opinions again
Jacko21
Jacko21Jacko21St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta179 Threads 2,718 Posts
2 and a half years ago......still trust no one to this day
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Jul 13, 2007 1:01 PM CST Opinions again
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
Hard to get the trust back when the one you trusted screwed it up
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Jul 13, 2007 1:02 PM CST Opinions again
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
I don't know what's harder, trusting someone else again, or trusting myself not to make the same mistakes again...frustrated mumbling
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Jul 13, 2007 1:04 PM CST Opinions again
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
Know exactly what you mean. Feel the same way myselfhug
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Jul 13, 2007 1:06 PM CST Opinions again
Urhotman
UrhotmanUrhotmanPottstown, Pennsylvania USA29 Threads 792 Posts
Yes I have, and trust is not something I take for granted anymore...It must be earned. I am not nearly as trusting a person as I once was, and I don't know if I ever will be. dunno
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Jul 13, 2007 1:07 PM CST Opinions again
Urhotman
UrhotmanUrhotmanPottstown, Pennsylvania USA29 Threads 792 Posts
2 years continue not to trust anyone.
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Jul 13, 2007 1:12 PM CST Opinions again
Slenderblonde
SlenderblondeSlenderblondeWaterford, Ireland8 Threads 342 Posts
Yes, for nearly the entire duration of my marriage. Found out about four years ago, hence the separation.

Still very untrusting of men.

Trust only my Dad.
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Jul 13, 2007 1:25 PM CST Opinions again
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Yes, I've been let down too many times before. It would seem that the only one who hasn't was my father. I try hard for it not to be as much of an issue as it would otherwise be because I would unwittingly let it affect my relationships with others and then I would be the loser, yeah?

I am hoping someone will prove me wrong, hasn't happened yet........ just maybe??? thumbs up yay
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Jul 13, 2007 1:27 PM CST Opinions again
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Ah, just you wait, Alison...

"Ti-eye-eye-me, is on your side, yes it is..."dancing
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Jul 13, 2007 1:46 PM CST Opinions again
lorraine
lorrainelorraineDublin, Ireland104 Threads 2,717 Posts
can you ever trust again, when the one you trusted cheated.
I dont think i ever will.
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