If she isn't interested? A mutual curiosity and attraction is better. Why should you have to convince her of anything? She ought to recognize and appreciate your virtues.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
My question is, why would you want to?
And no, I don't think you can "make" anybody do anything they don't want to. Especially not when it comes to feelings. You can't make someone feel something they don't.
If you were to get them into a relationship, I think it would always be lop-sided. JMO.
Jun 16, 2007 11:52 AM CST Do you think you can make a man/women who is not interested in you to fall in love with you later??
JoginhoAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands34 Posts
JoginhoAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands34 posts
I think so too...
however I hear stories that says something like this: Ooh, at the beginning I hated him... he was so boring, so ugly... bla, bla, bla.... but then... bla, bla, bla, bla.. and now I love him. "
elegantladyLondon, Greater London, England UK104 posts
I don't believe you can "make" anyone do anything they don't want to do! Of course there are many relationships that start out with disinterest on one part or the other and then all of a sudden things change. I've heard stories where a person says, "I couldn't stand him/her when we first met", it's all about giving the other person a chance, getting to know each other and seeing if it will work. There is a book that is a good read for everybody, especially women, It's called, "He's Just Not That Into You". At the end of the day, if he/she really doesn't like you, I doubt they will fall in love!
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