For the ladies of CS. ( Archived) (52)

Jun 24, 2007 5:57 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
Aircon
AirconAirconLiverpool, UK17 Threads 1,442 Posts
Ok, I realise I'm asking a pretty sensitive question here, but what the hell...just tell me to mind my own business if you want!

So, you like a guy, or you find out that a guy likes you...do you contact your CS friends to learn more about him...or find out if he's shown interest in any other CS lady?

Over to you...wine
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Jun 24, 2007 5:59 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
I'd just ask him... if there was anything I wanted to know, why go the long way round?
Seems to have screwed things up for some here before...

Bluntly yours,

Cath yawn doh
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Jun 24, 2007 6:00 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
No and no, if I like him for my own reasons I couldn't care less what others thought.
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Jun 24, 2007 6:01 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
Angeleyes34
Angeleyes34Angeleyes34Dublin, Ireland13 Threads 505 Posts
Nope never done that.... usually make up my own mind on that one. Anyways it's most likely a guarantee that you are not the sole person that they are in contact with. There are some many people on here it would be a surprise if that was true.......
grin
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Jun 24, 2007 6:04 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Personally,I do it myself...I don't go into lengthy details,but I do/would make it know that I have my eye on them,and would it be possible that the 2 of us get to know one another better,and not just as freinds,if this is what your looking for that is.

Nothing ventured,nothing gained is my motto.....
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Jun 24, 2007 6:06 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
Aircon
AirconAirconLiverpool, UK17 Threads 1,442 Posts
Yes, but would you contact your other CS lady friends to learn more about the man?
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Jun 24, 2007 6:08 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
And what would I get from them that I couldn't get first hand.

Besides Aircon,many tell you things they think you wanna here,or there are those who say just the opposite,just because....If I want the straight goods,I am like NIKE and "just do it" myself...lol
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Jun 24, 2007 6:20 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
Aircon
AirconAirconLiverpool, UK17 Threads 1,442 Posts
thumbs up
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Jun 24, 2007 6:20 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
A woman(or man for that matter) who feels she has to seek comfort/approvment/acknowledgment from friends tells me that she has some insecurity issues.
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Jun 24, 2007 6:26 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
nope i would,nt feel i would have to ask anyone,as would feel could make my own perception of this person ,in time,what one sees in a person,,another mite not see,,so best left to urself,,to make your own decisionsyay thats wot i feel anywaybanana
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Jun 24, 2007 6:30 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
Given that there are many "Players" online..personally I would do 2 things, ask him outright AND check him out with any of my girlfriends on here..better to be safe than sorry.

It is a lot easier to do this on the Irish Site, and in time, we know who is messing around

For some it may be approval from others, and for some, it will be from being cautious..I know I do, for this reason, and this reason alone
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Jun 24, 2007 6:35 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
SexySuperman
SexySupermanSexySupermanathens, USA31 Threads 178 Posts
Ok what is a player to you? I mean right now ill talk to anyone who talks to me. But if anyone got serious about liking me and wanting to meet me id only talk to them...... but i wont have to worry about that no one loves me moping
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Jun 24, 2007 6:37 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
I would probably assume he has approached others if he has been on the site for any length of time. If it seemed to be getting serious I would ask him if he was spreading himself around...ask others? unlikely unless I had heard him mentioned specifically.
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Jun 24, 2007 6:41 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
And are we not all past playing in the sand box per sa.....Gossip is not a funny thing,childish indeed it is,and causes way to many headaches for my liking,perhaps why I tend to "play" alone...Less is by far more
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Jun 24, 2007 6:43 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
A player to me...someone who mails and converses with another with the soul aim of reeling them in and not actually honestly seeking someone in their lives, someone who arranges dates with many at the same time and always keeping the "Safety Net" of having others waiting in line for the next date


If a person is sincere in what they are looking for, they should give it 100% to the person they are conversing with, even if that person turns out not to be the one for them for whatever reason, at least they havent clouded their judgement with having too many in thier loop
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Jun 24, 2007 6:45 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
OMG !!!!!!




what am I gonna do now??
what am I gonna do now??









laugh
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Jun 24, 2007 6:48 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 24, 2007 6:50 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing

I think I'll be fine as long as no one has access to police records...uh oh
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Jun 24, 2007 6:51 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
teelish10
teelish10teelish10hamburg, New York USA1 Posts
I would just look at his profile and make a decision myself, kinda sounds like what you're referring to happened when I was in my teens. I make my own decisions now. If the woman or women you're referring to or about does that and you find out about it I guess if I were you that would be telling me something about her...just my opinion......Twink
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Jun 24, 2007 6:52 PM CST For the ladies of CS.
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
OMG !!!




I had never thought of that one either.......



what am I gonna do now?
what am I gonna do now?









laugh
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