Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ? ( Archived) (122)

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thats how I lost my mother but the driver of the other car was stoned on marijuana.

I could have 4 women at the same time.So one them would be good anyway!

one was enough, and she preferred my mate to me

Well yes does sound about the same...
But I wasn't and he was. I respected
his up bringing and waited...
Yes I agree completely.

4 is better, they fight with each other and forget you! believe me!

What is the deal with all the cheating? Is monogomy so hard? What is it about committment that people dont understand? What is wrong with people that they find it so hard to be faithful to the one that they by their own will CHOSE to be faithful to? These people were so lucky that someone loved them enough to commit to them and spend the rest of their lives devoted to them, and they throw it away like it means nothing. It truely disgusts me.

he had a elbow problem..... bent it too much

You are absolutely right. That's the whole reason behind my first marriage. We really were not emotionally prepared & responsible. We grew up and really were very incompatible. A tradgic event ended the marriage. We were just not strong enough to move forward. I did take the time to grew up alittle more. Second (most resent marriage) ended as it was suppose to. Death really does end a marriage. During those 16 years, we worked at changing our own personal beliefs with the help of each other. Really shocked others because I was his 3rd wife. So, I hold onto the belief that the 3rd one is the magical one, the one where you put all hindsight into proper perspective.

Gentlepaws!! I been married 1 time,and i guess i was still wet behind the ears,when it came to understanding.Ithought a wife was to be seen and not heard, unless she was addressed.My Ex,was very posessive and dominating.We had 3 children,and I married him,back in december of 69,Had our first child,in 70,
Waited awhile,had our 2nd child,born in 74,and then our youngest child was born a year later,in 75,She was born June 20th 1975,
within 3 weeks of her birth,he flew the coop!!!!Left me with the three kids,while he moved in with his first wife.So as i hear,he was with her onand off,our whole marriage. So,GentlePaws!!! I was a dumb as a MudBrick.Iam not stupid anymore.Ihave been totally single,since our divorce,in July 14th 1974.