My ex had a bad life till she met me, She was abused by her ex, and emotionallly abused by her parents. Everything was working out good, she had many psych, problems, they came to a head about 19 years into the relationship, major mood swings, she actually changed into a totally different person, the walk, the talk, the music, food, everything. She became a total stranger. I had to divorce her.
bluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK4,836 posts
Hey you are not old you are just beginning ....you will meet someon e when you least expect it chele, its always the nice people that get .....hurt xx babs
......He had to go home to his country....and I wasnt willing to leave the USA....maybe I was being selfish....but it was a decision I had to make and I dont regret it. I miss him sometimes....but only cuz he was a great guy who deserved to be as happy In his country as I was staying here!
I believe it was a case of familiarity breeds contempt. I love my Ex. But I let us grow apart. i stopped paying attention to the little things. Or i started paying too much attention to the minor everyday issues instead of the overall prize.
Either way I lost my Wife, Friend, and Lover. After 21 yrs it could be considered that this could be expected. But she meant too much to me and I shouldn't of let it happen.
What went wrong is that marriage is hard work and a lazy person will let things fail because they are too tired and inept to maintain and upkeep a healthy marriage.
well...at first she was the best thing since sliced bread...until the casinos here opened, which she developed a terrible gambling habit. and it affected our marriage.
ah.....MGM......I have spent and won a few dollars up in there.....I have also watched a couple of husband/wife arguments going on there too! Its sad when it becomes a habit!
My ex-wife couldn't handle being an Army wife, and when I left the Army she couldn't handle me being a civillian. I suppose we couldn't stand the thought of being in each others company for more than a weekend. Anyway we still get on ok for the sake of the kids
My ex well I really don't know what went wrong I was married seven months and he cheated on me seven times while I worked 2 full time jobs, kept the house and was paying all the bills and he did nothing. He wouldn't keep a job more than 3 days. I even help take of his lovely children and I was the one who got treated like doggy doo-doo! I tried to give it all to him and I got cheated on etc in the long run so you tell me where it went wrong.
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