Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ? ( Archived) (122)

Sep 16, 2007 10:32 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
My ex had a bad life till she met me, She was abused by her ex, and emotionallly abused by her parents. Everything was working out good, she had many psych, problems, they came to a head about 19 years into the relationship, major mood swings, she actually changed into a totally different person, the walk, the talk, the music, food, everything. She became a total stranger. I had to divorce her.
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Sep 16, 2007 10:33 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
People change and fall out of love, whrn my wife left me I though I was going to die,10 years later I cant see me even kissing her hello.
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Sep 16, 2007 10:34 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
Hey you are not old you are just beginning ....you will meet someon e when you least expect it chele, its always the nice people that get .....hurtmoping xx babshug
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Sep 16, 2007 10:35 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
Yeah ...I have been talking to someone from this very site...nice guy and hes cute too applause
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Sep 16, 2007 10:37 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Thank Yourolling on the floor laughing (no folks,its really not me)
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Sep 16, 2007 10:38 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 16, 2007 10:41 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
......He had to go home to his country....and I wasnt willing to leave the USA....maybe I was being selfish....but it was a decision I had to make and I dont regret it. I miss him sometimes....but only cuz he was a great guy who deserved to be as happy In his country as I was staying here!
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Sep 16, 2007 10:42 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
comfort
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Sep 16, 2007 10:42 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
cheering Gimme a D cheering


rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Sep 16, 2007 10:43 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
Shhh ....hey you got mail!
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Sep 16, 2007 10:44 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
No...U do! laugh
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Sep 16, 2007 10:47 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
Michelle we need to start our own you've got mail thread!
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Sep 16, 2007 11:01 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
I believe it was a case of familiarity breeds contempt. I love my Ex. But I let us grow apart. i stopped paying attention to the little things. Or i started paying too much attention to the minor everyday issues instead of the overall prize.

Either way I lost my Wife, Friend, and Lover. After 21 yrs it could be considered that this could be expected. But she meant too much to me and I shouldn't of let it happen.

What went wrong is that marriage is hard work and a lazy person will let things fail because they are too tired and inept to maintain and upkeep a healthy marriage. moping blues
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Sep 16, 2007 11:05 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
CLLGEGRL
CLLGEGRLCLLGEGRLSan Antonio, Texas USA465 Posts
We were never right for each other to begin with. Just raging hormones, I guess. I knew it would end it up failure but I enjoyed the ride. *M*wine
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Sep 16, 2007 11:05 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
doodaroosky
doodarooskydoodarooskyDetroit, Michigan USA5 Posts
well...at first she was the best thing since sliced bread...until the casinos here opened, which she developed a terrible gambling habit. and it affected our marriage.
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Sep 16, 2007 11:07 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
ah.....MGM......I have spent and won a few dollars up in there.....I have also watched a couple of husband/wife arguments going on there too! Its sad when it becomes a habit!

hug
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Sep 16, 2007 11:12 PM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
amyjo74
amyjo74amyjo74pittsburgh, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 6 Posts
i grew up and got smart !
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Sep 17, 2007 12:15 AM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
jimbhoy
jimbhoyjimbhoyHamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK80 Threads 2 Polls 4,142 Posts
My ex-wife couldn't handle being an Army wife, and when I left the Army she couldn't handle me being a civillian.
I suppose we couldn't stand the thought of being in each others company for more than a weekend.
Anyway we still get on ok for the sake of the kids
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Sep 17, 2007 12:38 AM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
My ex well I really don't know what went wrong I was married seven months and he cheated on me seven times while I worked 2 full time jobs, kept the house and was paying all the bills and he did nothing. He wouldn't keep a job more than 3 days. I even help take of his lovely children and I was the one who got treated like doggy doo-doo! I tried to give it all to him and I got cheated on etc in the long run so you tell me where it went wrong.
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Sep 17, 2007 1:54 AM CST Most of us have been married at least once. What went wrong ?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I guess I am just too much man!!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Oh that is so funny it hurts my sideslaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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