what to do?? (17)
crazedangel89VIRGINIA BEACH, Virginia USA41 Threads 441 Postswhat do you do when you are stuck in a house where everyone tells you they hate you, that you are useless, and always putting you down?? ive tried to ingore it as best i can but it still gets to me. they always find fualts with what i do. it is never good enough for them. i dont know what to do anymore. i want out but i have no where else to go. i spend most of my nights crying myself to sleep. even though i have all this negativity i still try to stay positive but it gets harder to do that. i just dont know what to do anymore
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There's really only one thing you can do, that's stick up for yourself, and get the hell out ASAP. You will find away.
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i try. i work about 60hrs a week and only make about $80 and most of that is spent on what my ferrets need ...like food and litter and vet bills. so its kinda hard.
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sweet girl.....I have a teen ager and she is 16 years old...so I guess I could suggest to move and star a new life, you are so beautifull....and you have a very nice smile, u look so sweet.....people can be very crue but you only have the decision that let the people pass over you.....so......get your baggage and move to some where else....please do it....
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i am trying to thats why in looking for a better job.
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girl....will be better if you move....God wont let you alone
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as I said nobody has the right to pass over you, unless you authorize them....
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i dont let 'em. its hard durning the day cause im gone from 6am to about 7pm and i have no door to my room so my things either get stolen or broken. i have to keep how i feel to myself b/c i cant write it down. if i do it will get read and somehow be used as blackmail against me.
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60 hours, and only 80 bucks?
Something is wrong there.
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You are in a no win situation, If you only make 80 bucks for 60 hours, you need a new job. You may have to get rid of the ferrets, Take care of you first!
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Show to them that it doesnt affect you....if you show that you dont care and ignore them they will hate it and eventually stop hopefully.
That and try to move out. Send roses to your door from a secret admirer.
That and try to move out. Send roses to your door from a secret admirer.
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i know its not alot but it is something and i am looking for a better job. but i could never get rid of my 2 ferrets. right now they are the only thing keeping me sane. and from staying inside and sulking all day. with them i go outside take them on walks. i would willingly give up everything else except for isis and lynx
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the ingore and it will go away thing ...tried it and it only excalated things.
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You asked for advice, and I'm going to give you the best advice I can offer....and it may be hard to hear, but here it goes:
You and only you can change the situation you are in. If you don't like being there...leave. If you can't afford to move, find another job so you can afford it. Only you can change your life, and you can't wait for somebody else to change it for you. You will never change things by complaining about how bad they are...actions speak louder than words.
You have to ask yourself one simple question: Is this how I want to spend my life? If the answer is "no" than make those changes in your life to better your situation.
JMO
You and only you can change the situation you are in. If you don't like being there...leave. If you can't afford to move, find another job so you can afford it. Only you can change your life, and you can't wait for somebody else to change it for you. You will never change things by complaining about how bad they are...actions speak louder than words.
You have to ask yourself one simple question: Is this how I want to spend my life? If the answer is "no" than make those changes in your life to better your situation.
JMO
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You enroll in college and spend the least amount of time possible around these people, oh and you get a job too. 
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This sounds awful for you!! And the fact you are having your possessions stolen, there's no excuse for that!! Could you not put your things in a locked cupboard or even if you have a locakable suitcase. Do you have a lockable locker at work? Or perhaps a trusted friend can look after your most precious items?
You do need to find another job by the sounds of it, as well as somewhere to live. I don't know what you do for a living, but can you not find a job that is live-in for a while. It will solve both problems and maybe give you some time for a while to save some money towards somewhere else to live??
Good luck to you.
You do need to find another job by the sounds of it, as well as somewhere to live. I don't know what you do for a living, but can you not find a job that is live-in for a while. It will solve both problems and maybe give you some time for a while to save some money towards somewhere else to live??
Good luck to you.
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1- you belive at your self
2 - after work try to do something like go to libery
3- read a lot of book about meaning in life ,
4- remamber the sky is high so some people cant tuch sky they try say sky not good
2 - after work try to do something like go to libery
3- read a lot of book about meaning in life ,
4- remamber the sky is high so some people cant tuch sky they try say sky not good
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