What should I do? (44)
TiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 PostsMy guy Greg and I had a falling out but I received an email last Thursday that he would contact me in the next few days. It is now three days ago and I was wondering what should I do. Should I mail him or wait until he mails me?
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I would e mail and ask what's happening Tiffanie.......good luck
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he said he will mail u...so wait few more dayes
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Honesty is always best....when in doubt...just ask...
Best of luck!!!
Best of luck!!!
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Thanks guys. You know finally receiving something from him after 2 weeks gave me some hope that all was not lost. My mind tells me to wait, but my heart can't. I'll give him til tonight my time and if he hasn't written by then well I'll make the first move. Maybe he's waiting for me to do that, I don't know.
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If in doubt do it, there's nothing to lose, everything to gain
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Was this the same guy who walked out on you a couple of weeks back?? And you thought it was over???....
Sounds to me like he`s keepin you dangling love.....if he really wanted to mail you or get in touch to sort things out...then he would have done already if he had any sort of feelings for ya...
Just my opinion...good luck......
Sounds to me like he`s keepin you dangling love.....if he really wanted to mail you or get in touch to sort things out...then he would have done already if he had any sort of feelings for ya...
Just my opinion...good luck......
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You could have a point lovaboy and it is the same person. But I will give him one more chance, like I said I will wait until this evening. You never know.
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What's this "contact in the next few days" business?? If someone really wants to be in contact, s/he would take the time then and there, sugar. Wouldn't you?? Beware . . . .
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If you feel thats the right decision then best of luck to you....
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Thanks for your opinion lovaboy. Lets wait and see. 
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Hi Raven you have a very good point. Do you think I should mail him right now or not?
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Mail him now hun....whats the point in sitting wonder for a few more hours..better to know now
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Well I have to ask...
How long have you been together? That would definitely
play a role in how I would handle the situation. Been three days huh?
A few day is three or more so really depends on how long you feel you
should wait. No one, not even anyone here will know him like you do.
So go with your instinct. Me personally... If a man I have been in a
relationship with tells me a few day. For one, I would want to know
why we can't discuss it now. If we can't 5 days max. My time is valuable.
If he couldn't see that then I wouldn't waste my time. A good man will always put you before himself. But on the other hand a good woman will try her best to not let that happen. Just my 2 cents worth of dribble.
How long have you been together? That would definitely
play a role in how I would handle the situation. Been three days huh?
A few day is three or more so really depends on how long you feel you
should wait. No one, not even anyone here will know him like you do.
So go with your instinct. Me personally... If a man I have been in a
relationship with tells me a few day. For one, I would want to know
why we can't discuss it now. If we can't 5 days max. My time is valuable.
If he couldn't see that then I wouldn't waste my time. A good man will always put you before himself. But on the other hand a good woman will try her best to not let that happen. Just my 2 cents worth of dribble.
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Thanks to everyone for all your advice. I will wait and see what happens. You will be wondering how this is going to end and I will let you know.
Love Tiffanie
P.S. I haven't given up yet and I won't either.
Love Tiffanie
P.S. I haven't given up yet and I won't either.
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Maybe this guy hasn't had time to read all the messages sent by you. He may have been visiting his children 1000 miles away, in which he sees only every 2-6 months. I'll bet he writes you soon. You should be patient, sweet Tiffanie.
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I would wait.If he really cares and wants to talk to you then he will contact you..
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if any of those or similar circumstances happening
he should have said so-offered an explanation of some kind-
taken one more minute to put your mind at ease.
that would only be kind-or maybe a lie-LOL
often in these situations the guy is waiting to see
if another relationship he is in is gonna pan out...
and you are second choice if it doesnt...
sorry to be dark but its very common.
its the "grass is greener..." syndrome
we all deserve to be number one to each other.
i agree with whoever said a good guy
will put your comfort above his own
whether its giving you his jacket in the wind
or asking nicely that he have time to sort things out,
while apologizing for the discomfort it may cause you.
listen to the women-not the men!!
these standards are not too high,
especially if you would do so to him
(golden rule)
he should have said so-offered an explanation of some kind-
taken one more minute to put your mind at ease.
that would only be kind-or maybe a lie-LOL
often in these situations the guy is waiting to see
if another relationship he is in is gonna pan out...
and you are second choice if it doesnt...
sorry to be dark but its very common.
its the "grass is greener..." syndrome
we all deserve to be number one to each other.
i agree with whoever said a good guy
will put your comfort above his own
whether its giving you his jacket in the wind
or asking nicely that he have time to sort things out,
while apologizing for the discomfort it may cause you.
listen to the women-not the men!!
these standards are not too high,
especially if you would do so to him
(golden rule)
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I believe in being proactive - take the initiative - keep the ball rolling. If you have something to say, say it.
Get my drift?
Good Luck to you
Get my drift?
Good Luck to you
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