when i have listened to women rather than discounting everything they have said and just chosen to 'believe' him i have gotten whacked- here and in the world
i will be darn careful about doing that EVER
we are old enuf now to radar if a womans motive for a comment isnt pure and dismiss it but usually when asking virtual strangers and they are such in agreement i go with the womens advice
its like dont ask if you arent ready for an answer... ive learned that too
Well it was my own stupid fault. I don't have to walk away from him because he's already done that for me. If only I could take back the things I wrote to him last night, but I can't not anymore. I didn't want this to happen and regret what I said. But it's too late now. I've found out the hard way. Well that's taught me a valuable lesson. Thanks to you all for your support.
So sorry to hear that, but if he really cared he would of talked to you about what was bothering you and him. Doesn't sound like he really wanted a relationship. If he did you would have his phone number and talked to each other.
I agree with you but the woman is always the one who takes the blame aren't they. Even now I still can't get him out of my mind and maybe it just wasn't meant to be. I thought we had the beginning of something but obviously I was wrong. Still they say time heals the pain, don't they.
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NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE
when i have listened to women
rather than discounting everything they have said
and just chosen to 'believe' him
i have gotten whacked-
here and in the world
i will be darn careful about doing that EVER
we are old enuf now to radar
if a womans motive for a comment isnt pure and dismiss it
but usually when asking virtual strangers and they are such in agreement
i go with the womens advice
its like dont ask if you arent ready for an answer...
ive learned that too
(hi zella)