A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU! ( Archived) (61)

Aug 27, 2007 5:33 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
So does all this mean I have to agree with everyone??
Or can I disagree without the fear of being reported and booted??? confused dunno
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Aug 27, 2007 5:35 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
The latest word is. Anyone will be booted, doesn't matter who starts what.
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Aug 27, 2007 5:38 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
You don't have to agree with anyone.

Just disagree politely without name calling, insulting or making demeaning comments that can be considered an attack on the person making the post.
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Aug 27, 2007 5:39 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
No, that's been pretty obvious....
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Aug 27, 2007 5:45 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
So basically we need tolearn how to have discussions without starting anything.

So far we have made it through three pages without insult and people expressing their opinions quite bluntly.

yay Hurray for us!yay
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Aug 27, 2007 5:49 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
I absolutely agree with you, but, again, it should apply to everyone on here...
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Aug 27, 2007 8:51 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
When I made this post:

1. It was a copy and paste from an article.....I didnt write it.

2. I dont think each thing on there is going to apply to each and every person.

3. It was not meant as a "rule" it was meant as a "guideline"

There has been way to much bs on the CS lately.....Its been crazy. I just thought it was a neat article.....

but then there are those who will surely ARGUE with that! dunno
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Aug 27, 2007 9:14 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
It's a great thread. Thank you for starting it.thumbs up
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Aug 27, 2007 9:17 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
bluem8e
bluem8ebluem8eBarstow, California USA2 Threads 540 Posts
You should of called it make love on CS not war LOLlaugh
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Aug 27, 2007 9:36 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
It is a neat article Lonely , I am glad you posted it , but you know that there are some here that no matter what would argue with a fencepost !laugh
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Aug 27, 2007 9:47 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
professor You have a point there! rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 27, 2007 9:48 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up yay yay yay
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Aug 27, 2007 9:58 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
I`ve tried arguing with a fencepost, the problem with that is the fencepost doesn`t feel the need to be right, it just stands there looking at you like you are stupid and it will never walk away, nor will it admit defeat. It`s position on whatever subject you may be arguing never wavers.

Now, when I disagree with a fencepost, I just walk on by, you just can`t win.grin
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Aug 27, 2007 9:59 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
Its like trying to have a battle of wits with an unarmed person!doh
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Aug 27, 2007 11:45 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
I agree, great article...

I was just trying to establish what one can and can't do, without the risk/fear of being booted...dunno
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Aug 27, 2007 11:48 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
I disagreegrin rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 27, 2007 11:49 PM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
You would!laugh tongue
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Aug 28, 2007 1:21 AM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
You're thread is awesome and I know that it is hard for some people to do. I for one just don't like people fighting especially in the forums. Its my opinion that they should take it else such as into email. Or like in the outside world such as in my town (Dramaville here in Marshalltown trust me) with my friends if they come to me with something I always tell them "Well let's go get so and so that way you two can have it out but through talking not screaming or fighting and that way things get settled in a civilized manner and you know each others side and then you can talk out the best way to solve the problem together" But in some cases when there is no justification for the agrument I say to them just leave it alone. Also there is a time and place for everything so I think that if one doesn't have anything nice to say at that time they don't need to say it at all. Then again there are those people that won't let dead dogs lye after something happens and just want to keep raising the issue that need to just leave it to the main parties involved and that is just my two cents for what it is worth. Thank you and this is a great thread and lonelyinbc hope you will come back to my thread when I can get my brother up and running better. Dum laptops anyways.handshake rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 28, 2007 1:23 AM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
you're was supposed to be your sorrydoh
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Sep 14, 2007 3:11 AM CST A must read thread for all of CS....Yes, this means YOU!
curly1969
curly1969curly1969cottage grove, Minnesota USA10 Threads 1 Polls 138 Posts
Great pointers however, the one main point that you forgot to mention is; don't keep feelings, emotions, disagreements etc. bottled up inside you until you can't take it any more. That only makes communication with you impossible and painful when your "cork" finally blow's.
Make an agreement with your close friends, loved ones, etc. right away that you will have an open relationship with them as long as they are open with you, and give eachother signals as to "when its time to talk" it has saved me more than once.
It saves alot of hassle in the long run.
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