lostsoulinspacechocowinity, North Carolina USA521 posts
If you just want to see if there interested, a flower will do with a little hello message, if you are really interested in them, an e-mail, will be better.
Just my .02, but I'd agree with pencilartist; E-mail first, to let the other person know why they caught my eye and why I'm interested in communicating with them. Flowers would come after I'd gotten to know them a bit more and felt more secure in a "budding" relationship - whether romantic or platonic - but then again, I've always been just a tad on the shy side and afraid to presume too much at the start... (That's the way my wife and I started!)
Ok, I know that was more like .04, but what the heck, you asked!
I kind of like the flowers concept, which allows you to gauge interest. In my case, their won't be any, and this saves valuable time in drafting a letter
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