Tell me is it a crime to be to nice? ( Archived) (74)

Sep 9, 2007 5:49 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
Is that why some people must pick on those who are?dunno
I am just asking cause this question has always been in my mind!confused
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Sep 9, 2007 5:51 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
Thats just bullying...and insecurity on the bullys part......some people feel like its a bad thing to be nice....or just dont know how to be......pity that eh???....dunno
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Sep 9, 2007 5:53 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
manc31
manc31manc31manchester, UK40 Threads 684 Posts
hi rose.in my expieriance it pays to be very soft at the correct time and v.tuff when needs be also.its getting the balance rite that's the tricky bit.if your talking about you?...stay as you are your a lovly,sweet,atractive ladythumbs up hug
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Sep 9, 2007 5:57 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
angelana
angelanaangelanaLondon, UK37 Threads 2 Polls 210 Posts
It happens to me too. When I am nice and kind to others, they feel I am vulnerable and submisive. Others would like to dominate on me dunno why, is something I think of. They give self importance but dont want to know what is important to me.moping
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Sep 9, 2007 5:57 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
unless you meet someone like i did, who it now seems is wanted by Interpol for fraud, theft and an assortment of other goodies, so do beware who you chat to!!!!!!!!!!
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Sep 9, 2007 5:58 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
Thanks guys I just had to ask cause sometimes there are those kinds of people that like to cause problems for others!handshake
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Sep 9, 2007 6:00 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
Itsalakelife
ItsalakelifeItsalakelifePrior Lake, Minnesota USA1 Threads 118 Posts
Mother Teresa put it best.....

People are often unreasonable, illogical and self centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and your God;
It was never between you and them anyway.
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Sep 9, 2007 6:00 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
I will be trust me I always try to take precautions! I am just talking about people in general!handshake
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Sep 9, 2007 6:01 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
I guess it is a crime to be nice. Some people just have to take advantage of the fact, and be a**hole!
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Sep 9, 2007 6:02 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
Some people can try and have a go i a "nice way" though...theyre the ones who people should watch out for.....the ones who make little comments and are sly about it......thumbs down It all sucks anyway.....
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Sep 9, 2007 6:02 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
manc31
manc31manc31manchester, UK40 Threads 684 Posts
some people who act all sweetness & light are very different creatures behind closed doors............if someone treats you badly tell them in no uncertain terms its just not appeninthumbs up and if that doesn't work a swifed kick in the goolys will do the trickthumbs up grin
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Sep 9, 2007 6:10 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
can I ask exactly what you mean?confused
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Sep 9, 2007 6:14 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
Well ive had this happen a couple of times.....certain messages from certain people.....who are acting as though they are joking around, when really they are trying to have a sly little dig in the ribs......ya know? But not coming across to the rest of the forums as anything but banter....but i know that its been aimed towards me......drives me daft when people act like that........if somebody has something to say....say it....dont beat around the bush....or if they havent got anything nice to say...keep their gob shut......laugh dunno
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Sep 9, 2007 6:14 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
DizzyDi
DizzyDiDizzyDiLancashire, England UK26 Threads 1 Polls 1,761 Posts
She put it very beautifully indeedangel
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Sep 9, 2007 6:19 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
manc31
manc31manc31manchester, UK40 Threads 684 Posts
ok ok .............dave!..............you smell rolling on the floor laughing seriously though I've had a few telling me to "grow up"etc and I didn't even know themrolling on the floor laughing I don't care nor ever will care laughter is good for the sole thumbs up grin
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Sep 9, 2007 6:19 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
thumbs up
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Sep 9, 2007 6:20 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
At least I am not the only one who has noticed that!handshake
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Sep 9, 2007 6:21 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
I dont give a monkeys what they think about me mate.....i just think its sly behaviour....and a little childish from adults who should know better....no better than children.....thumbs down
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Sep 9, 2007 6:21 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
beejay
beejaybeejaySt. Truiden, Limburg Belgium50 Threads 1,413 Posts
thumbs up
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Sep 9, 2007 6:22 AM CST Tell me is it a crime to be to nice?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
handshake nope....you aint on your own hun.....cheers
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