Thats just bullying...and insecurity on the bullys part......some people feel like its a bad thing to be nice....or just dont know how to be......pity that eh???....
hi rose.in my expieriance it pays to be very soft at the correct time and v.tuff when needs be also.its getting the balance rite that's the tricky bit.if your talking about you?...stay as you are your a lovly,sweet,atractive lady
It happens to me too. When I am nice and kind to others, they feel I am vulnerable and submisive. Others would like to dominate on me dunno why, is something I think of. They give self importance but dont want to know what is important to me.
unless you meet someone like i did, who it now seems is wanted by Interpol for fraud, theft and an assortment of other goodies, so do beware who you chat to!!!!!!!!!!
Some people can try and have a go i a "nice way" though...theyre the ones who people should watch out for.....the ones who make little comments and are sly about it...... It all sucks anyway.....
some people who act all sweetness & light are very different creatures behind closed doors............if someone treats you badly tell them in no uncertain terms its just not appenin and if that doesn't work a swifed kick in the goolys will do the trick
Well ive had this happen a couple of times.....certain messages from certain people.....who are acting as though they are joking around, when really they are trying to have a sly little dig in the ribs......ya know? But not coming across to the rest of the forums as anything but banter....but i know that its been aimed towards me......drives me daft when people act like that........if somebody has something to say....say it....dont beat around the bush....or if they havent got anything nice to say...keep their gob shut......
ok ok .............dave!..............you smell seriously though I've had a few telling me to "grow up"etc and I didn't even know them I don't care nor ever will care laughter is good for the sole
I dont give a monkeys what they think about me mate.....i just think its sly behaviour....and a little childish from adults who should know better....no better than children.....
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I am just asking cause this question has always been in my mind!