Spending time with one is a good thing, heck let's face it when you live your life by the zipper, the dang thing gets rusty way too fast! LOL
I have never been married, but often have wondered what it is like? People complain about it all the time, but ya know people complain about being divorced all the time too? Divorcees just don't complain so much at first cause who ever admits to being wrong or making mistakes in the first place? Then I noticed people brag about being close to someone and they brag about being away as well? Who ever admits to having dependence upon another human being at first when lots of people drive it down your throat that you gotta be so darn independent? What the heck? As if any of that really makes any darn sense?
Spending time with someone is an individual thing. Finding that balance may be difficult. Some people you want to spend more time with than others, but when that one day comes to pass, so to speak, and you start looking back on your life....one thing is for sure! Before the lights go out on that final chapter, ya sure will be thinkin about the times you spent with some!
Ya want that special person in mind to be intermittent through your life? Well that's okay, but you might regret the reality you suddenly realized there could have been a lot more thought included.
Tis the question of a much bigger picture that has a happier ending for sure!
I do like being a slob sometimes. I like being alone sometimes. But you can have that in the right full-time relationship. If someone loves you, they love you in all walks of life - in your work clothes, jeans, dressed up, while sick or well, in sweats or boxers, etc. If you are with a companion that is secure with self and/or equipped with hobbies, you can have them as a full-time partner and know you will eventually have your own space. Too much of any good thing is bad. It's all a matter of finding the right company and then you balance everything out.
don't know about the partner thing yet but I really want a full time maid a full time butler, a full time massage person and a full time, fully functional robot to run all the rest of the errands
Im in it for the long haul. I do believe people should have seperate interestes and be allowed to have thier space. but at the end of the day Id like to know theres some either home or on her way home to me, and be able to spend time with them....
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