I have been single for 2 years. I miss the companionship, the hugs for no reason ... the feeling of being in love. I like my independence ... but think life spent with a sig. other is more what I want.
Well I want to find a man that I can do that with. Be able to what I want, without him having a problem with it. There are guys like that out there ya know!
I know exactly what you mean, I am so used to doing what I want, when I want, that is would be hard to intergrate another person into my life now. That said, I'd love to try to do it someday. I am willing to make the sacrifices it takes to have a partner. I mean, if she's worth it, of course!
bluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK4,836 posts
hiya huinni bun .....well i cant live with anyone i dont think , ive had too long on my own like karen says its nice to wake up sometimes on yer ownl but im not saying its everyones cuppa tea ,,,,,,just suits me babe !! hope ya still talk to me _____-me and my ex partner were together 4 years nearly but we never lived together xxx
Sep 19, 2007 5:44 PM CST HOW MANY OF YOU REALLY WANT A FULL TIME PARTNER?
LovenLife805Ventura County, California USA41 Posts
LovenLife805Ventura County, California USA41 posts
I was actually a very happy camper while I was married, loved it !! Been single now for quite a few years, and still have trouble sleeping alone. there are always going to be good and bad points to sharing your life and home with someone special. You just have to decide if you want to live alone and keep a certain amount ofyour freedom, or share your life, time, space, and being with the one you love.
Me? hell yes I would get married if the right lady came along.
i do ,i have for 15 years with a patener she passed away , do what i want when i want and still be togther,she dos what she wants and if she wants me to go i go,most of the time,
I'd have to be honest and say at this point in time - I have no plans on living with someone fulltime because my daughter being with me and as well my grandson. As well I'm still in the early stages of a relationship and although its been mentioned - its in the future because we both want to be sure. When you have kids etc. its simply not just the two of you until of course the kids are grown and left the nest (but then truly I think that it still matters to me - because I'd want everyone to at least get along).
I'd love to live with someone as my partner - because to me it also demonstrates a level of committment that I desire to have in my relationship and I'd truly love to be married one day. I want the whole package - not just a piece of the pie.
Well I would like a man who knows what the hell he wants and is not a BS'er and actualy believes in honesty and communication but I hahve lost all hope of that latly!
I think alot of people give up their outside interests,nights out etc,when they are in a relationship,so ,if the relationship fails(as it invariably does with so much pressure 24/7),they are left alone,detached from the world.I would never give up my interests,they are part of me,and would like my man to feel the same.
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Hi Babsie