This is to all the women on CS, also men ( opinions always welcomed) would you prefer dating a guy who is younger to you, I mean like 1-5 Years. I once dated a guy just 2 years younger to me, and he kept on reminding that I am " older" since we didnt look much like having age difference so it was like turn off . But when Guys date 1-5 years girl younger to him, its so OKAY. Not fair. I discussed this thing with some of my friends, and they say its like this because girls age earlier and fater then Men so thats why its always young girls and a bit older guys.
5 years younger than me is age 18, generally a bit immature for me...but there are rare exceptions. 5 years older is 28, which I'm good with, unless they want to be overly dominant and treat me like a kid...which I'm not okay with.
I dated a gal 16 years younger than me for 6 years, apart from the obvious snide remarks from other jealous people it was fantastic, let your head rule your heart, if you think it's going to work ...then try
I am a guy and not gay; so I can't date a guy..... but I have crush on younger girls as well as older gals....and not for someone of my age...I find many of them interesting and easily attracted to me.........
Many people will probably find it odd to see a women dating a man who is younger than them. It is against social norms. I don't think that matters in the least.
Here is my three point check-list: 1) Is it legal? 2) Are we good for each other? 3) Am I happy?
If you can say yes to all those three, go for it. If someone else thinks your relationship doesn't "look right", that's their loss.
I am not crazy about dating someone younger than me to be honest. If they are about 1 or 2 years younger I don't have an issue with but no younger than that. I dated a guy who was 23 one summer and lets just say it didn't last and I will never go that young again.
Although age really dosn't have anything to do with anything. I have dated older men even in their 40's who were quite immature just the same. I think it all depends on the person you date and their personality and maturity levels. Normaly once you get to know someone after awhile you can pretty much tell what they are going to be like.
And that is why I prefer to take my time to get to know someone before I consider dating them. I have learned my lesson in that department. No more surprises for me lol
Women also can keep themselves looking youthful with all the creams, make-up,haircolor,SURGERY etc....
I was in a wedding just yesterday,The Groom was 12 years youger than the Bride, and as far as looks go, they look the same age. As far as personality goes, they act and think the same.
Age is just a number and it doesn't matter or shouldn't. My sister has a friend and her dad was 17 when he married her mother at age 35. They were devoted to each other their whole lives. Love is love and if it doesn't matter to the people involved it isn't anybody else's business.
Age is just a number. My father has been married for over 30 years to a woman 15 years younger than him. One of my best friends has been married 30+ years to a woman over 20 years older than him. My ex wife is 14 years younger than me. We were married 14 years, I snatched her straight out of high school when I was 32.... Maturity doesnt always come with age.... age is just a number follow your heart...
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