but after everything that has happened to me lately, I'm going to go visit my fiance's grave today. It's a 2 hour drive, but I feel like I need to "talk" to him. He was the one person in my life that never judged me, tried to help me solve life's problems and the one I could run to when things got tough and when things were great.
I'm hoping I can find his comfort and understanding like I was always able to do when he was living.
My mother kept "John"s ashes on her desk. Every morning she would get up, sit at her desk and talk to her husband while drinking coffee. It helped her get through her day.
I think life is all about finding peace. I hope you find yours through this visit!
I do believe we can gain guidance, emotional healing and comfort from the ones we have loved and lost from beyond the grave. I really hope visiting his grave helps you to find peace of mind and that his positive vibes still manage to reach you..
Also, remember the people close to us that we lose in reality do remain with us in spirit continuing to support and comfort us always and forever...
Thanks everyone. You all have also helped and some of you may not even realize it. I began to cry as I was reading everyone's words of encouragement.
I'm not one to "reach out" very often. I'm not one to let someone in my heart easily since Steve died. I took that chance here recently and my instinct was very wrong. I'm at the point where I can't trust my judgment, therefore this thread.
I haven't visited him in 2 years. His family didn't give him a headstone and I have been reluctant to go because it will break my heart (even more) if they never gave him that recognition that he deserves.
Hey girl... do what makes you feel better... doesnt matter what others think.... Be careful with your heart... trust is something that is earned...its not a given...dont beat yourself up over a mistake...we all make em... youre a beautiful person inside and out... your day will come...dont trust easy and dont settle for less than butterflies....
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I'm hoping I can find his comfort and understanding like I was always able to do when he was living.