Maybe I'm Crazy... ( Archived) (51)

Oct 13, 2007 7:10 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
but after everything that has happened to me lately, I'm going to go visit my fiance's grave today. It's a 2 hour drive, but I feel like I need to "talk" to him. He was the one person in my life that never judged me, tried to help me solve life's problems and the one I could run to when things got tough and when things were great.

I'm hoping I can find his comfort and understanding like I was always able to do when he was living. sigh
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Oct 13, 2007 7:11 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Nothing crazy about that.hug
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Oct 13, 2007 7:12 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
tinymac
tinymactinymachilversum, North Holland Netherlands25 Threads 1,741 Posts
I think you will find it helps you a great deal!


Take care!
hug peace
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Oct 13, 2007 7:13 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
thanks guys smile
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Oct 13, 2007 7:14 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Dominatrix
DominatrixDominatrixDomiville, England UK61 Threads 2 Polls 1,065 Posts
if its what you feel you need to do, and it helps
then it can only be a good thing xx
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Oct 13, 2007 7:15 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
p_seg
p_segp_segCentral, Xlokk Malta340 Threads 4,497 Posts
no Chele, you're not crazy!! thumbs up

everyone needs to vent of his/her frustrations, feelings, problems, etc. comfort

This is just the way that you do it. hug
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Oct 13, 2007 7:19 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
peacemom764
peacemom764peacemom764Dover, Delaware USA2 Threads 847 Posts
You will feel better after you talk to him..angel
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Oct 13, 2007 7:21 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
Thanks so much for all of the positivity....I needed that. hug
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Oct 13, 2007 7:23 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
peacemom764
peacemom764peacemom764Dover, Delaware USA2 Threads 847 Posts
That's what we are here for my friend...hug
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Oct 13, 2007 7:24 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
p_seg
p_segp_segCentral, Xlokk Malta340 Threads 4,497 Posts
well said peacemom!! thumbs up
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Oct 13, 2007 7:25 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
lolls
lollslollsdublin, Dublin Ireland16 Threads 452 Posts
I can see the sense in that for you. hope you feel better soon
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Oct 13, 2007 7:30 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
My mother kept "John"s ashes on her desk. Every morning she would get up, sit at her desk and talk to her husband while drinking coffee. It helped her get through her day.

I think life is all about finding peace. I hope you find yours through this visit!hug
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Oct 13, 2007 7:32 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
It's not crazy...It's comforting...hug hug

Whatever makes you feel better...Then by all means do it!!!!!!!!

hug comfort
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Oct 13, 2007 7:34 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
Not crazy at all. I "talk" to my dad and best friend, Tommy, (both deceased) on a fairly regular basis. (It helps.)

Luck and light to you!

angel comfort angel
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Oct 13, 2007 7:39 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
I do believe we can gain guidance, emotional healing and comfort from the ones we have loved and lost from beyond the grave. I really hope visiting his grave helps you to find peace of mind and that his positive vibes still manage to reach you..

Also, remember the people close to us that we lose in reality do remain with us in spirit continuing to support and comfort us always and forever...rose
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Oct 13, 2007 7:57 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
Thanks everyone. You all have also helped and some of you may not even realize it. I began to cry as I was reading everyone's words of encouragement.

I'm not one to "reach out" very often. I'm not one to let someone in my heart easily since Steve died. I took that chance here recently and my instinct was very wrong. I'm at the point where I can't trust my judgment, therefore this thread.

I haven't visited him in 2 years. His family didn't give him a headstone and I have been reluctant to go because it will break my heart (even more) if they never gave him that recognition that he deserves.

I apologize for going on.sigh
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Oct 13, 2007 8:00 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
you're a sweet person, and we all wish you the best
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Oct 13, 2007 8:01 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
Hey girl... do what makes you feel better... doesnt matter what others think....
Be careful with your heart... trust is something that is earned...its not a given...dont beat yourself up over a mistake...we all make em... youre a beautiful person inside and out... your day will come...dont trust easy and dont settle for less than butterflies....comfort hug
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Oct 13, 2007 8:03 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
Thanks ship hug
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Oct 13, 2007 8:04 AM CST Maybe I'm Crazy...
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
Thanks girl...I appreciate your support hug
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