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Aww, sis! Just read your comment now, months after.
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Thank you Ambrose. Just the way i see it.
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Hey lovely2 I have been married for 9 years to I had moved my family to another state which is texas for my wife who was not happy in oklahoma I left a buisiness that took me 3 years to establish.To maKE HER HAPPY EVERYTHING WAS WELL I THOUGHT THEN I FOUND OUT SHE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR HERE.THAT WAS 6MONTHS AGO IT STILL DRIVES ME CRAZY I EVEN WENT AS FAR AS CUTTING MY WRIST.IT JUST SO HAPPENS THE GUY WORKS AT THE LOCAL WALMART WHICH IS THE ONLY ONE FOR 400 MILES THE ONLY DEPARTMENT STORE AND I HAVE TO DO ALL MY SHOPPING THERE SO IF U FIGURE OUT HOW TO DEAL WITH IT PLEASE LET ME KNOW
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i was in similar situation for 16 years because i didn't have the courage to do something about it sooner, kept telling myself it would get better but believe me it doesn't !! Like you i thought there was something wrong with me.
Eventually i left with my 2 children and it was the best thing i've ever done, and my kids were happier.
I t's not easy and some days are tough but stick with it!
Good Luck !!
Eventually i left with my 2 children and it was the best thing i've ever done, and my kids were happier.
I t's not easy and some days are tough but stick with it!
Good Luck !!
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Here is the sad truth:
If you're not happy there really is no point in sticking around. And as for you not minding him regarding the child if he doesn't have to deal with the other girl. No matter what he will always have to deal with her. Also if he's been this way for 4 years then he's probably not going to change. If you love him let him go and if he returns. I hope everything works out for the best. It really does work
If you're not happy there really is no point in sticking around. And as for you not minding him regarding the child if he doesn't have to deal with the other girl. No matter what he will always have to deal with her. Also if he's been this way for 4 years then he's probably not going to change. If you love him let him go and if he returns. I hope everything works out for the best. It really does work
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I agree with Speedy and Buster just sums it up:
shape up or ship out
Lovely2, it's your decision, of course, but you have to be selfish for once and think about yourself (and your kid), how many years before you die??? do you want to live them like that?? if the answer is no, then you've got work to do.
best wishes and lots of strengh!
shape up or ship out
Lovely2, it's your decision, of course, but you have to be selfish for once and think about yourself (and your kid), how many years before you die??? do you want to live them like that?? if the answer is no, then you've got work to do.
best wishes and lots of strengh!
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I'd even say well if he providing good for you and the child... but you have not said one redeeming good quality about him ...not one.
So if you want a cheering section CS will provide it.
Girl you already know what you need to do.
So ask yourself this one important question "what do you want to do?"