Please I really need a your honest advices. (27)
Sounds like you need to get rid of the trash and get a grip on your feelings of why you would love trash
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I think the key to the situation is stated in your opening sentence: "...sacrificed so much for this guy including my happiness." SOMEONE needs to be concerned with your happiness. If he won't, then it's time that you do.
Concerning your child's welfare: Imagine how much emotional damage is being done by seeing an unhappy mother and an unfaithful father (and a mother who tolerates it).
Concerning your child's welfare: Imagine how much emotional damage is being done by seeing an unhappy mother and an unfaithful father (and a mother who tolerates it).
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I´sometimes wonder myself what is wrong with me but i really dont know. I think I just have to let go off my emotions and continue with my life and think about the welfare of my child not that she´s still young.
I hope i can deal with it.
I hope i can deal with it.
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You have actually wrote yourself that you are not happy with him! Maybe that should give you a clue about what to do!
Also, about your daughter growing up without a father, who says that she won´t see him ever again.....he should pay child maintenance and have visitation rights which he should do if he is any sort of man.
There are a lot of children that don´t see their father, including mine, and I believe they have grown up to be good, honest and loving........
Get rid of the crap out of your life, will do your child more harm seeing you sad with her father than happy without him.
Also, about your daughter growing up without a father, who says that she won´t see him ever again.....he should pay child maintenance and have visitation rights which he should do if he is any sort of man.
There are a lot of children that don´t see their father, including mine, and I believe they have grown up to be good, honest and loving........
Get rid of the crap out of your life, will do your child more harm seeing you sad with her father than happy without him.
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Yeah it probably is........sometimes we don´t realise how lucky we are....
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Tell him to shape up, or ship out.
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If it had been me I would probably have got rid of him 4 years ago when he started playing his games. He sounds a real player and totally selfish too. It's obvious he isn't thinking of your feelings, the other girls felings or any of the kids feelings. He's obviously all me, me, me and to cap it all off he sounds immature too.
I know it's maybe more difficult to split with the cultural thing but if I were in your shoes I would have to try and find a way around it. You deserve much better than to be treated like this, he really does sound a waste of your time
I know it's maybe more difficult to split with the cultural thing but if I were in your shoes I would have to try and find a way around it. You deserve much better than to be treated like this, he really does sound a waste of your time
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I'll sum it up....if he cheated once....he'll do it again!!
I don't know how old you are, but you choice is to cut your losses after nine years or finish the rest of you life being his second thought!!
I don't know how old you are, but you choice is to cut your losses after nine years or finish the rest of you life being his second thought!!
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Dump that bum, and come to BID DADDY.
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sis, i didn't see you acting this cute
Love you!
Love you!
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I am in the same situation you are that is why I'm back out there looking again. Sometimes love isn't enough of the consideration, passion, etc isn't there.
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All excellent points, Luscious. You saved me the trouble of commenting.
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i meant on this thread...cause you always act cute!
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Well, Im a little too young to answer this but I honestly think that if a man has to become a father, he should be responsible enough to care for the family, othweise he should not think of fathering.
I think you should take a decision and this decision should involve the father too, he should be made known that if he does not change for good, he will be left with no choice.
I think you should take a decision and this decision should involve the father too, he should be made known that if he does not change for good, he will be left with no choice.
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sounds like you need reassurance, dumping this inconsiderate, selfish jerk is the only way to go.
children are resilient, they will be just fine.
once you are free of this heartache you will be fine, and happiness will come your way again real soon.
i went through a similar situation, i was more concerned about my child, i took the advice and ended the relationship, my daughter spends most of the time with me, and when she is with me she is always happy, (i do not spoil her!) and i wish i had of left earlier.as long as your child knows that you love them and are there for them they will be fine.
children are resilient, they will be just fine.
once you are free of this heartache you will be fine, and happiness will come your way again real soon.
i went through a similar situation, i was more concerned about my child, i took the advice and ended the relationship, my daughter spends most of the time with me, and when she is with me she is always happy, (i do not spoil her!) and i wish i had of left earlier.as long as your child knows that you love them and are there for them they will be fine.
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He doesn´t treat me nicely. He doesn´t care about my feelings too and obviously he doesn´t respect me at all, I have tried all I can to make him see reasons but I dont know, he´s not changing at all and above all he´s allergic to talking about things, he doesn´t listen when I want to us to talk about our problems. he love no one but himself. The only regret is that he´s got a very lovely and very understanding and considerate mother.
Like I´ve said am done with him just waiting 10 more days to move to my new found apartment and start afresh. I know he will regret his actions but by the time he does I will definetely be far gone. Thank you guys for taking time to help and ease my pains, it helps a lot, I hardly talk about my feelings to my people or friend but sharing it here has helped.
Thanks
Like I´ve said am done with him just waiting 10 more days to move to my new found apartment and start afresh. I know he will regret his actions but by the time he does I will definetely be far gone. Thank you guys for taking time to help and ease my pains, it helps a lot, I hardly talk about my feelings to my people or friend but sharing it here has helped.
Thanks
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my advice is u have 2 do what is best 4 u and yur child get out of this relationship while u still can sometimes these things turn violent
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I have a child for him who is 3years old and i´m just not happy the way things are going with us now, and another thing is that he´s in his early 30s but still behaves like he´s under 25years with the way he want to go out almost every night and the kind of useless friends he keep. I really dont know what to do am thinking so much about my child welfare i mean growing up without dad 24hrs cause they both love eachother but the point is all this while i have been faithful to this guy and its hurts me so bad to see that he´s not respecting me and he doesn´t want to let go off me either. I really need your advice on what I can do this is killing me.