I am Bill got into a what I thought was a good thing..stayed at her home on weekends..she stayed at mine..while here she stayed in bed all day..needed a supposid rest..for 9 days..she said I want God..not a man after 5 months of a good time..including church together..she is 55 yrs old woman. Plese answer this..I was deveststed. I feel I was used.Bill
Nothing you can do now Bill. Let it go and let her go and move on. Just doesn't sound like she really wants a relationship with ANYBODY. Wish you good luck in your search for love.
sometimes when you think you have found a gift from heaven ..just for you. the best thing about the gift is only what it's wrapped in....Take heart.. She is definitely giving the religious types a bad name.
it seems that you were used and i am sorry for that.its hard enough to meet people on here as it is....then you read a story like yours.good luck on the rest of your experences.hope that they are good ones!!!!!
I agree with the others Bill. It does suck getting hurt and betrayed but it just means she wasn't the one and that your one and only is still out there searching for you.
hey man , i know the feeling. sorry it happened to you. try to remember something good, take a lesson thats positive and move on, hard though that is. best of luck to you
Mike1162Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA1,694 posts
Hi Bill, Good to meet you.
You stayed at her place, she stayed at yours and it took 5 months for her to figure out she wanted god instead of a relationship with you.
My question would be were there signs that could have gotten you out of this sooner or did the determination to make the relationship work rule your thoughts, emotions, actions, and reactions which lead to hanging on to something that was doomed to fail from the beginning.
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