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It sucks but thats what a lot of them do. Also note that most women probably receive 10 times the mail that we do. It's probably hard to get back with everybody.
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- many people ( men and woman) do get very busy. some people genuinely forget to reply - please remember - not all woman or men for that fact are the same. if they dont reply consider it their problem and not yours.i always like to think we will meet some-one who suits us when the time is right.
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I know, it even happens to us women.. I'm on another site where you can see that they have read it but then deleted it. That's bad. Hang in there; don't give up and keeping on emailing and enjoy the forums.
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Don’t give up. This is not easy. Give it some time.
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It really isn't easy, but after awhile, you get used to it, and it doesn't seem that hard....
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Even taking all these things into consideration, it's still depressing as hell.------ This thread is Archived ------
patience.....it will all work out...I haven't met THEE one yet, but have come close, and in doing so, I've made a few terrific friends that I would not have had if not for this site. Hang in there!
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- come on - cheer up - it is their loss not yours.i sent u a flower to help ( i think)
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- u are very welcome. doesnt matter who u send a flower to (male or female) - if its sent kindly and sincerely - its all good !!!dont change who u are or what your goals are.
keep being u and in time that special person will arrive.
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I used to respond and say, "No Thanks". I still do sometimes. My problem is when I do, I usually get back rude replies from the people I responded "No Thanks" to.
An example of this is when I was doing this on Yahoo, I received a reply from a guy way to old for me. I responded basically thanking him for his interest and said, "While I appreciate your reply, I'm interested in meeting someone in my age range who is interested in eventually starting a family someday. Upon viewing your profile, I do not show you share this interest and having my own children some day is very important to me".
I received back a very scathing reply about how I'm immature and self-centered and I don't deserve to find someone. Uhhhh right, because I know that I want to have kids? That makes me immature and self-centered? It went on and on about what kind of horrible person I am.
I'll still occasionally send back replies of no thanks, but not very often because of that reason.
An example of this is when I was doing this on Yahoo, I received a reply from a guy way to old for me. I responded basically thanking him for his interest and said, "While I appreciate your reply, I'm interested in meeting someone in my age range who is interested in eventually starting a family someday. Upon viewing your profile, I do not show you share this interest and having my own children some day is very important to me".
I received back a very scathing reply about how I'm immature and self-centered and I don't deserve to find someone. Uhhhh right, because I know that I want to have kids? That makes me immature and self-centered? It went on and on about what kind of horrible person I am.
I'll still occasionally send back replies of no thanks, but not very often because of that reason.
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I read someones profiles last week.. and he was so talkative and seemed to have alot to say.
Anyway.. I emailed him.. he read it then didn't reply for 6 days.. I kept checking the mailbox.. (how sad! haha).. and was waaaaaaiting for him to reply.
When he did.. and we started talking.. he was SO SO SOOOO boring and seemed nothing like his profile had said at all. ( i think he must have written it drunk.. or someone ELSE wrote it for him)
it just made me laugh that I sat there waiting for this amazing reply for almost a WEEK...
So now I don't bother... reply or don't.
Anyway.. I emailed him.. he read it then didn't reply for 6 days.. I kept checking the mailbox.. (how sad! haha).. and was waaaaaaiting for him to reply.
When he did.. and we started talking.. he was SO SO SOOOO boring and seemed nothing like his profile had said at all. ( i think he must have written it drunk.. or someone ELSE wrote it for him)
it just made me laugh that I sat there waiting for this amazing reply for almost a WEEK...
So now I don't bother... reply or don't.
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hahaha
*Welllll I'mmm nottt doing ittt any morrrrre* (was that in there too?)
*Welllll I'mmm nottt doing ittt any morrrrre* (was that in there too?)
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Believe me when I say this to you..man to man..OK
Yer doing something wrong,,,its your fault.
Now you know that,,you gotta change yer style.
I'm saying because I have never,,,not once,,NOT had a reply.
Your a fine looking young man,,but don't rely on that alone for charm.
Yer doing something wrong,,,its your fault.
Now you know that,,you gotta change yer style.
I'm saying because I have never,,,not once,,NOT had a reply.
Your a fine looking young man,,but don't rely on that alone for charm.
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LOL....
I find your post amusing as I recall sending you an email soon after I joined.
You kept showing up in my who's viewed me area and I sent you a hello come and say hi type of email.
You did not reply to me!!
LOL
I find your post amusing as I recall sending you an email soon after I joined.
You kept showing up in my who's viewed me area and I sent you a hello come and say hi type of email.
You did not reply to me!!
LOL
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I have to agree with this post...
Try changing your style and jazzing your messages up with a little bit of this and a little bit of that.
Try putting a bit of oomph, charm and charisma in your messages and add a little bit of originality then top it all off with a sprinkling of even more charm
Try changing your style and jazzing your messages up with a little bit of this and a little bit of that.
Try putting a bit of oomph, charm and charisma in your messages and add a little bit of originality then top it all off with a sprinkling of even more charm
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Oh quit your whinning...men do the same thing...
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This wouldn't be so bad if not for the fact that my outbox tells me when they have opened the message I sent... It's not like I can say to myself, "Well, maybe they just didn't get it..."
I tell you all, I'm about ready to give up.