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Mar 22, 2006 6:16 PM CST get to know me
awhytemale
awhytemaleawhytemalevandalia, USA1 Threads 10 Posts
check out my profile, send me a message, and maybe we can have some fun "wink, wink"
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Mar 22, 2006 8:36 PM CST get to know me
awhytemale
awhytemaleawhytemalevandalia, USA1 Threads 10 Posts
NO BUT SERIOUSLY FOLKS I AM A 24 YR OLD MALE WHO IS LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WHO WILL TAKE ME AS I AM. I WAS MARRIED, NOW I AM SEPERATED AND GETTING DIVORCED I HAVE PAPERS COMING IN A WEEK. I HAVE A 4 YR OLD DAUGHTER WHO LIVES WITH ME. I START SCHOOL IN APRIL TO FINISH TRAINING TO BE AN ELECTRICIAN. I DONT HAVE A CAR, MY DAUGHTER AND I LIVE WITH MY MOM (BECAUSE OF THE DIVORCE) IF YOU LIKE WHAT U READ HIT ME BACK.
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Mar 23, 2006 12:43 AM CST get to know me
hate to break it to ya whyti......but no car...livin with mom....

lets put it this way....the girls ...i really dont think they are gonna like it ...
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Mar 23, 2006 12:45 AM CST get to know me
babycountry28
babycountry28babycountry28saint joseph, Missouri USA15 Threads 351 Posts
Things happen to good people keep your head up and just surround your little one with as much love as you can. things do get better
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Mar 23, 2006 5:26 AM CST get to know me
sweetamby
sweetambysweetambyDefiance, Ohio USA13 Threads 295 Posts
You sound nice, some girl will come along. Hang in there!
*Amber*
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Mar 23, 2006 5:27 AM CST get to know me
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
Welcome neighbor!
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Mar 23, 2006 7:03 AM CST get to know me
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
I thank you wave for breaking it down for me...


Wow, sad thing is Wave is probably right...
car, job and own living quarters. Then the "girls' will possibly like you

Take heart you who has young child and is currently at Mom's
I commend you in your efforts of raising a child and school.
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Mar 23, 2006 12:22 PM CST get to know me
awhytemale
awhytemaleawhytemalevandalia, USA1 Threads 10 Posts
HEY U GOTTA DO WHAT U GOTTA DO
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Mar 23, 2006 6:38 PM CST get to know me
Corky699
Corky699Corky699augusta, Georgia USA1 Threads 29 Posts
i hear ya there man... sad thing is i relate... ive got 2 sons and live w/ my parents till school is out... buyin a car this weekend since im off from work... then ill b goin from there... my ex just kinda pushed the kids here earlier this month... so i wasnt expecting it nor was i prepared... not complainin... love the fact i get to spend this much time w/ them... but it does put a damper on meetin people... good news is that me and the boys r gettin our own place as soon as school is out... thats may i think... so for now i get to stay put and we all help out... and i get to save money to have a downpayment for a home... i plan on buying... so there ya have it... we get rough starts but it all works out... 'girls' might not date us right now... but it gives a chance to c whos superficial... cause me and u both know that this is only temporary
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Mar 23, 2006 9:02 PM CST get to know me
awhytemale
awhytemaleawhytemalevandalia, USA1 Threads 10 Posts
thats right i will be out of school in may n then me n my daughter will go from there
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Mar 23, 2006 10:04 PM CST get to know me
Corky699
Corky699Corky699augusta, Georgia USA1 Threads 29 Posts
glad to c im not the only one out there in my position... its good to have someone u relate to... take it easy man...
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Mar 23, 2006 10:36 PM CST get to know me
awhytemale
awhytemaleawhytemalevandalia, USA1 Threads 10 Posts
hell ur the 1st person ive talked 2 n this position either people r holding back or there aint very many
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Mar 23, 2006 11:59 PM CST get to know me
Corky699
Corky699Corky699augusta, Georgia USA1 Threads 29 Posts
guess there r not many man... go figure... who wants to b like us? and who will honestly fess up to it?
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Mar 24, 2006 12:26 AM CST get to know me
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
I'm still friends with several people I graduated highschool with. All but one of us has needed a hand at some time or another. Be it moving back to parent's house, in with friends or moving friends in to make ends meet. The most common cause of this was divorce.

Most men won't openly admitt when this happens, but it's not uncommon at all.

Don't sell women short assuming they can't see past your living situation to see that you are solving the problem and improving your options. Some can, some can't, and some won't want to.

I've had good women look past that and more.
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Mar 24, 2006 5:23 AM CST get to know me
Drkeyedbeauty
DrkeyedbeautyDrkeyedbeautyToledo, Ohio USA7 Threads 336 Posts
Awww,u guys will do just fine and yes u gotta do what u gotta do. You guys are lucky that u have family to help u out so u can both concentrate on improving ur futures. Whyte and Corky, ur setting good examples for ur kids and one day they'll tell u how proud they are of u. Best of luck to both of you.

Amy
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Mar 24, 2006 12:57 PM CST get to know me
awhytemale
awhytemaleawhytemalevandalia, USA1 Threads 10 Posts
my game plan is my daughter, finish school, look 4 a place, cuz right now its kinda hard to look; no one to look after my daughter(i hate dragging her all over the place. and if there is time, if the women can look past what im going through n not be superficial than have me a date or 2 and see where it goes from there
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Mar 24, 2006 7:47 PM CST get to know me
Corky699
Corky699Corky699augusta, Georgia USA1 Threads 29 Posts
mine is to buy a car this weekend... save more money... get a place for me and the boys by the time summer vacation gets here... then look for someone to date here and there... guess the havin the ex at home to watch the boys is the only thing i miss rght now... it is hard to run errands sometimes... i guess thanx r due in favor of dear old mom and dad who r takin the slack in that department whaile i work to make a better life for us.. ive realized kids r not the 'chick magnets' they were in my youth... lol... jk... gotta lighten the mood here and there...
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Mar 24, 2006 7:50 PM CST get to know me
Corky699
Corky699Corky699augusta, Georgia USA1 Threads 29 Posts
windy i agree w/ ya in the aspect of the fun thing... im so out of it i dont even know how to begin on the datin scene anything... and my kids take too much energy out of me to even try it... thanx for the uplift ocee... i like to think its a pride thing that hides paople like me... lol... glad to hear there r a few people who understand and dont judge
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Mar 24, 2006 7:51 PM CST get to know me
Corky699
Corky699Corky699augusta, Georgia USA1 Threads 29 Posts
thanx for the pat on the back... i needed that
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Mar 25, 2006 12:54 AM CST get to know me
awhytemale
awhytemaleawhytemalevandalia, USA1 Threads 10 Posts
see this is what people like us need words of encouragement from complete strangers who can see past the crazy stuff that goes on in our lives
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