I normally tell myself 10-15 yrs difference is the limit.
However, since i have fallen for guys over that limit, i think deep down all i need is a man i can bond with intellectually, spiritually and physically.
bajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados3,724 posts
17 years and 22 years. One older than I, the other younger.
I really don't think age matters (as long as it falls in legal territory), it is all about how well one can communicate and how you get on. I have known some very immature older men and very well-centered youngsters.
All in one package, wrapped up together. No special order!
Who am i kidding, 'intellect' comes first! I am weak for those. They get along well with my hormones which means the physical aspect of it is in check. However, leaves 'spiritual bonding' as the most challenging.
I too believe that love has no age limit. I dated a guy when I was 18 that was 36, except he had told me that he was in his late 20's. I checked his ID, and found out the truth.
Just a tip fellas: Even if you are insecure about your age, you should tell the truth. Lying to try to snag some "young hot chick" will only get you so far. It would be in your best interest to keep yourself in check and you'll find women just as genuine as karma has to offer.
From experiences and observations, most European women an men pay more attention to the person, not their ages...unless as one above put it, it becomes a possible "legal matter". The "stimulation" is usually intellectual and the physical aspects works its magic pretty well. If there is any type of "average age" limits" at all it starts to show at a 20 to 25 year difference if not a bit more. That said, one mustn't forget that immaturity can be a problem at any intellectually especially...%)
They say age is not a factor and maybe for some it is not but it is for me. I prefer men my own age or at least within 5 years. I am simply not attracted physically to a man much older than me and not emotionally to those younger. I often have men who are ten years older or more contacting me and they are insulted when I tell them they are too old for me. Many will insist that age is irrelevant. But if I turn the tables and ask them if they would date a woman 10 years older than they are I am answered with a resounding "No"!
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What is the widest age difference
that you and another have shared.... physical intimacy?