Is it ok for a woman to make the first move? ( Archived) (76)

Jul 2, 2005 9:58 AM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
Joanne5959
Joanne5959Joanne5959Sanborn, New York USA15 Threads 351 Posts
I don't see anything wrong with it, if he gives you the right cues. Like I wouldn't just attack anyone, it would have to feel right for both parties..


Joanne
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Jul 2, 2005 10:01 AM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
Jimbo71
Jimbo71Jimbo71joplin, Missouri USA22 Posts
i think its awesome when the woman makes the move.
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Jul 2, 2005 12:17 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
outdoorman11
outdoorman11outdoorman118 Threads 382 Posts
Of course its okay ---get it on ! times a wastin :-)
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Jul 2, 2005 2:39 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
I think it is perfectly ok for a women to do this...There are some men out there that has never had to ask a women out and they are shy...;-)
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Jul 3, 2005 5:32 AM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
tallmanindallas
tallmanindallastallmanindallasRichardson, Texas USA18 Threads 294 Posts
Yes its ok, you never know you mite find the one you are looking for
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Jul 3, 2005 5:41 AM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Not that it happand"s a lot,but when a woman makes the first move, I think it feel"s good,It"s sort of like a natural high,to think that some girl think"s you cool.
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Sep 27, 2005 5:50 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
PureIndividual
PureIndividualPureIndividualBowie, USA1 Posts
Coming from a woman's perspective, yes it is ok. If a man is intimidated by you making the first move then you'll always have to wonder if anything else that you do (like voicing opinions) will also intimidate them.
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Sep 27, 2005 6:30 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Yes.
It does scare them, though, lol...
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Feb 3, 2006 9:30 AM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
dominoes20
dominoes20dominoes20Ottawa, Ontario Canada15 Threads 525 Posts
Great post, so now that you're no longer shy when do we see the pic? :)
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Feb 3, 2006 10:47 AM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
balladeer
balladeerballadeerCatawba, South Carolina USA6 Threads 120 Posts
I think it's perfectly fine for a woman to make the first move.
In this day and age it might be the only way for a spark to happen besides, I'm flattered when a woman makes the first advance.
It's difficult enough to find chemistry and mutual attraction between two people, that sharing that role can only help the odds.
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Feb 3, 2006 12:02 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
CautiousSingle
CautiousSingleCautiousSingleSouthern, British Columbia Canada4 Threads 697 Posts
I think it has a lot to do with the way women in general are conditioned - to be the hunted, not the hunter; nice girls don't do that; it'll seem desperate.... all those old fashioned traditions that need a good shaking up.
I have made some bold moves and approached men (in person) and it has been favourable, so far.
It was good lesson for me to be the one possibly setting myself up for complete rejection. Made me more empathetic toward men and less likely to disregard them. I would defintely recommend it to any woman.
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Feb 3, 2006 2:26 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
I dunno lol this one lady handed me a blank piece of paper folded up..said it was a note. So while i was trying to read this "note" she went to kiss me..it caught me so off guard i was sort of scared! lol so it can be hot but no need to make it so complicated by tricks!
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Feb 3, 2006 2:50 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
ruoutthere143
ruoutthere143ruoutthere143Freehold, New Jersey USA13 Threads 272 Posts
If you asked me that 12 years ago, before I was married, I would say no... not because I think it's not right, it's because I'm shy when it comes to that. But now, with this new internet dating thing, why not? The worst thing that can happen to you is that men don't respond or they write back that they don't have an interest, etc. Now, approaching someone in person, that's a different story... I'm still kind of shy when it comes to that. So dating sites certainly makes it easier for some of us shy people. Anyways, unfortunately sometimes the WRONG ones approach me persoanally! :)
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Feb 3, 2006 7:01 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
Motownman37
Motownman37Motownman37Modesto, California USA3 Posts
I think its totally ok for a women to make the first move. I had a women the other night while I was out ask me for my phone number which I thought was kind of weird at first but when I thought about it it was kinda nice for a change.
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Feb 3, 2006 7:08 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
tampa1
tampa1tampa1London, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,057 Posts
Duh Yeah...of course it is...
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Feb 3, 2006 7:23 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Double Duh's!! God, I hope so! as that is what it would take now for me, as I've basically given up....
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