Not that it happand"s a lot,but when a woman makes the first move, I think it feel"s good,It"s sort of like a natural high,to think that some girl think"s you cool.
Coming from a woman's perspective, yes it is ok. If a man is intimidated by you making the first move then you'll always have to wonder if anything else that you do (like voicing opinions) will also intimidate them.
I think it's perfectly fine for a woman to make the first move. In this day and age it might be the only way for a spark to happen besides, I'm flattered when a woman makes the first advance. It's difficult enough to find chemistry and mutual attraction between two people, that sharing that role can only help the odds.
CautiousSingleSouthern, British Columbia Canada697 posts
I think it has a lot to do with the way women in general are conditioned - to be the hunted, not the hunter; nice girls don't do that; it'll seem desperate.... all those old fashioned traditions that need a good shaking up. I have made some bold moves and approached men (in person) and it has been favourable, so far. It was good lesson for me to be the one possibly setting myself up for complete rejection. Made me more empathetic toward men and less likely to disregard them. I would defintely recommend it to any woman.
I dunno lol this one lady handed me a blank piece of paper folded up..said it was a note. So while i was trying to read this "note" she went to kiss me..it caught me so off guard i was sort of scared! lol so it can be hot but no need to make it so complicated by tricks!
If you asked me that 12 years ago, before I was married, I would say no... not because I think it's not right, it's because I'm shy when it comes to that. But now, with this new internet dating thing, why not? The worst thing that can happen to you is that men don't respond or they write back that they don't have an interest, etc. Now, approaching someone in person, that's a different story... I'm still kind of shy when it comes to that. So dating sites certainly makes it easier for some of us shy people. Anyways, unfortunately sometimes the WRONG ones approach me persoanally! :)
I think its totally ok for a women to make the first move. I had a women the other night while I was out ask me for my phone number which I thought was kind of weird at first but when I thought about it it was kinda nice for a change.
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