Is it ok for a woman to make the first move? ( Archived) (76)

May 25, 2005 2:58 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
so_fla_cutie
so_fla_cutieso_fla_cutieKissimmee, USA12 Threads 245 Posts
Hi everyone

Just wondered what you opinions were on if it is ok for a woman to make the first move....on internet or in person....

I have noticed some guys are intimidated when the woman makes the first move.....

what'cha think?
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May 25, 2005 3:01 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
LL187
LL187LL187Nanaimo, Canada4 Threads 611 Posts
Hmmm. Well, you are kinda cute ...

dpw
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May 25, 2005 3:05 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
missie839303
missie839303missie839303Northeast, USA3 Threads 87 Posts
In the past, I was a bit shy and intimated by men I was attracted to and missed out on opportunities that were available to me. I found out later some of guys felt the same way but they too were afraid of being turned down, etc. So, I learned the hard way....GO FOR IT!!!! All they can do is say no. Woohoo!!
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May 25, 2005 3:38 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
Chiron
ChironChironMason City, Iowa USA2 Threads 35 Posts
Sure it's okay for a woman to make the first move! It's true that some guys are intimated by it, but the majority of them seem to be fine with it. Takes some of the pressure off them. After all, it's hardly fair to expect them to always be the ones to initiate things.

Like Missie I've let being shy cause me to miss out on opportunities in the past, but I've learned to just take a deep breath and go for it. My sister says, it's always better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.
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May 25, 2005 3:42 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
Rhythmatist1
Rhythmatist1Rhythmatist112 Threads 366 Posts
Of course it is!!! Why who wants to know!! Oh sure this seat is available!!LOL
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May 25, 2005 3:53 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
no intimidation. bring it on!
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May 25, 2005 3:56 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
doogs
doogsdoogsfife, Fife, Scotland UK4 Threads 83 Posts
tto right it is baby go for it
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May 25, 2005 4:15 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
kissychristina
kissychristinakissychristinaPocahontas, Arkansas USA3 Threads 231 Posts
Looks like the majority has spoken and the votes are unanimous,go for it!
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May 25, 2005 4:17 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
grab it and ride it I say!!!
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May 25, 2005 4:31 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
are we talking horses or bulls?
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May 25, 2005 4:41 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
you can ride barnyard animals if ya want cherie,I'll take the menfolk,lol
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May 25, 2005 4:59 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
always the quick wit and turn of phrase cutey!
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May 25, 2005 5:14 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
thanx tumpa,hope you are doing well.
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May 25, 2005 5:25 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
goodlookingsmily
goodlookingsmilygoodlookingsmilyottawa, Canada1 Threads 12 Posts
I've noticed a large group of guys think that something is wrong with the girld who initiates.
I strikes me that some guys cannot understand that females have the same right to look for and choose their partner.
But the answer, of course you gatta be proactive and express your interest.
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May 25, 2005 5:26 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
goodlookingsmily
goodlookingsmilygoodlookingsmilyottawa, Canada1 Threads 12 Posts
sorry for mispelling: means: "girl", "It strikes me"
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May 25, 2005 5:33 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
A true gentleman ALWAYS lets a woman make the first move.
Unfortunately I have not always been a true gentleman. (90% of the time I am...........does that mean I am kind of a gentleman?)
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May 25, 2005 5:46 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
countrygal777
countrygal777countrygal777russellville, USA2 Threads 66 Posts
spekaing of which, i've always heard that a true lady always lets the guys make the first move...
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May 28, 2005 9:39 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
deeroleman
deerolemandeeroleman3 Posts
If a girl makes the first move, A guy knows she's interested. It's really very flattering. I like it.
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May 28, 2005 10:00 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
missie839303
missie839303missie839303Northeast, USA3 Threads 87 Posts
It's a real bummer when you find out months later that you both were waiting for the other to make the first move.
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May 30, 2005 2:19 PM CST Is it ok for a woman to make the first move?
whiteknight4u
whiteknight4uwhiteknight4u6 Threads 346 Posts
I believe it's fine for a woman to make the first move because not every guy is made of pure courage or high self-esteem. So,if you are a guy or girl that sees someone you like or would like to know better don't hesitate and rememeber the only thing between you and them is air and opportunity.
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