Attraction Influences. ( Archived) (12)

Nov 19, 2007 11:06 AM CST Attraction Influences.
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
Say your interested in somebody...would it bother you if you found out they were at one point attracted to somebody you found shared little in common with yourself?

I mean, we don't want to harshly judge people, but we do evaluate one another...compatability depends on such a process.

So, if you were of the opinion 'what the hell does he/she see in him/her', would it stop you from declaring your interest in that person?
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Nov 19, 2007 11:07 AM CST Attraction Influences.
The_NuttyTart
The_NuttyTartThe_NuttyTartexeter, Devon, England UK2 Threads 127 Posts
no it wouldnt... and hasnt bothered me in the past
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Nov 19, 2007 11:08 AM CST Attraction Influences.
If you saw a list of my ex partners, you would see. I have had fat, thin, black, white, young, old, handsome, not so handsome.

Nobody goes for the same type every time. I can't see any problem.

The only way I would worry was if my man had an incredibly gorgeous ex who wanted him back! lol!
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Nov 19, 2007 11:14 AM CST Attraction Influences.
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
You're busy tonight!

It wouldn't bother me at all, I would be more bothered if he was looking for a copy of his previous partner and found me!

Relationships fail for many reasons, one being compatibility issues, so it makes sense to look for other things in future relationships doesn't it?
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Nov 19, 2007 11:15 AM CST Attraction Influences.
May I just say Detente, it is good to see some thought provoking threads here again! Too many Word Association threads without your brain around!

cheers
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Nov 19, 2007 11:19 AM CST Attraction Influences.
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
Yes, too much "furry" thinking. laugh
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Nov 19, 2007 11:21 AM CST Attraction Influences.
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
I concur!

applause yay
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Nov 19, 2007 11:23 AM CST Attraction Influences.
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
shall we put put it this way, at least the word assocaition threads do not get blocked
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Nov 19, 2007 12:21 PM CST Attraction Influences.
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
Yes...that clone thing bothers me I must say, and I can't honestly say I'm entirely blameless either.sigh

I suppose the bottom line is; we live and learn about so much, including ourselves...I'm often surprised as to what I find attractive.blushing
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Nov 19, 2007 12:26 PM CST Attraction Influences.
DadofDucks
DadofDucksDadofDucksWentzville, Missouri USA9 Threads 2,123 Posts
have to agree with the lady. sadly I dont have time to get into another issue right now. Lunch is almost over...

Keep it up brother, good stuff and I dont even open the word association threads....applause applause hug
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Nov 19, 2007 12:31 PM CST Attraction Influences.
mime61
mime61mime61Summerville, SC, South Carolina USA10 Threads 1 Polls 339 Posts
I don't care what people think of the men I like! I get negativity all the time but some, only some, do I look back on and say "What were you thinkin', girl"

And sometimes you may find you have more in commen than you realize..happened to meblushing
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Nov 19, 2007 12:46 PM CST Attraction Influences.
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
I agree thumbs up
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