I wasnt aware that i told anyone they were making a mistake. Maybe u cud point out where i said that. If u read further back u will see that i wished them luck. I merely made the same point u just did by highlighting that i wouldnt do this... I didnt imply that they shoudnt.
Saying i wouldnt do it is not the same thing as telling someone they are making a mistake.
I saw it that way....I think it is wonderful that they are taking this step...Goth and I are friends...I am so very happy that she found someone that she is so crazy about....
the WE that I put in was for the doubters....not myself....I would do the same thing and just may be doing it within the next year....
I saw it as you were pushing your personal thoughts into their business...
The girl will probably have to move to South Africa, if I am that lucky. There are not too many places in the world where a Chemical Engineer working as a rock chopper (a miner) can work.
Pushing my personal thoughts into their business? They expressed themselves in a public forum, we are not all obliged to agree with each other in here and I am sure the couple in question wouldnt expect that. There was nothing negative in my post. If u choose to take it that way go right ahead.....
Accusing someone of pushing their personal thoughts on someone else is judgemental and negative. Leave out the JMO in your posts if u r going to do that.....
I will not leave out the JMO....those are my thoughts....
if you don't agree with something they are doing or anyone else...you don't have to post anythin about it....
if you can't be happy for someone....don't say anything at all...
I am the least judgemental and negitive person you could ever meet...I try and see the good in everything...that is why it bothered me so much to read your post to these two...
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Saying i wouldnt do it is not the same thing as telling someone they are making a mistake.