Hey Everyone! I'm new to this, never posted before... I need your advice, people! I've met a great guy over the net but he's in Europe and we can't meet for at least a year!!! Now, he's extremely busy and has so little time that it's scary. I want to keep him thinking about me! ANY IDEAS?
Send Him emails daily.......even if he is to busy to respond right away.....it will let him know that you are thinking of him..... And if it is meant to be.......it will happen!!
letters mailed the old fashion way and pictures sometimes a puter is not available.It nce when you just feeling down or the lonelyies hit you yu have that letter in your pocket. it something we can feel and smell thats from you directly.
Not to be negative please don't take this wrong. Meeting in a YEAR?? Sorry too long to waste the time. Long distance relationship? Does not normally work.
I´m sorry, but have the thought crossed your mind that the fact of his lack of time could be previous engagements? Hate to be the party crasher but it´s a common sign. A tip get his birthday and check with socialsecurity in his country, whom is living on his adress. If I´m wrong get a free computer phone number and talk with him every day using a camera as well. If he still can stay away dump him, he won´t have time with you even when you´re married to him.
phoning helps..I live in Europe and I exchange telephone numbers with a a Canadian... Although you have to stay lucid...there is still an ocean between the two of you. Don't expect too much! Good luck!
CautiousSingleSouthern, British Columbia Canada697 posts
Not to sound negative - just free advice Make sure you both have the same expectations throughout the next year. I also agree with fucina - a year is a long time
Hey, hey! Thanx for all the input. AND A COLD SHOWER, MOST OF THE TIMES... :( I noticed that guys were more negative about that kind of relationship, I wonder why... BUT I HAVE HOPE, CAUSE I AFTER 12 YEARS IN STATES, I STILL HAVE CONTACTS WITH MY FRIENDS BACK HOME... true, romantic involvement is different but worst case scenario will be that we will be friends with "my" guy... and what I meant by lack of time is not a lack of time for me in particular, but in general his schedule is absolutely full.
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I'm new to this, never posted before...
I need your advice, people! I've met a great guy over the net but he's in Europe and we can't meet for at least a year!!! Now, he's extremely busy and has so little time that it's scary. I want to keep him thinking about me!
ANY IDEAS?