HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away?? ( Archived) (12)

Mar 27, 2006 11:12 AM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
Catwhisperer
CatwhispererCatwhispererRaleigh, USA4 Threads 14 Posts
Hey Everyone!
I'm new to this, never posted before...
I need your advice, people! I've met a great guy over the net but he's in Europe and we can't meet for at least a year!!! Now, he's extremely busy and has so little time that it's scary. I want to keep him thinking about me!
ANY IDEAS?
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Mar 27, 2006 11:35 AM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
patientlywating
patientlywatingpatientlywatingNew Salisbury, USA14 Threads 254 Posts
Send Him emails daily.......even if he is to busy to respond right away.....it will let him know that you are thinking of him.....
And if it is meant to be.......it will happen!!

Good luck to you.........I hope you the best!!
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Mar 27, 2006 2:01 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
letters mailed the old fashion way and pictures sometimes a puter is not available.It nce when you just feeling down or the lonelyies hit you yu have that letter in your pocket. it something we can feel and smell thats from you directly.
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Mar 27, 2006 2:05 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
Rainbowkisses
RainbowkissesRainbowkissesArbroath, UK1 Threads 29 Posts
Try and talk on the phone if you haven't already...
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Mar 27, 2006 2:07 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
fucina
fucinafucinaJacksonville, Florida USA5 Threads 129 Posts
Not to be negative please don't take this wrong. Meeting in a YEAR??
Sorry too long to waste the time.
Long distance relationship? Does not normally work.
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Mar 27, 2006 2:09 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
joovisst
joovisstjoovisstSodermanland, Sweden79 Threads 812 Posts
I´m sorry, but have the thought crossed your mind that the fact of his lack of time could be previous engagements? Hate to be the party crasher but it´s a common sign. A tip get his birthday and check with socialsecurity in his country, whom is living on his adress. If I´m wrong get a free computer phone number and talk with him every day using a camera as well. If he still can stay away dump him, he won´t have time with you even when you´re married to him.
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Mar 27, 2006 2:09 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
Rainbowkisses
RainbowkissesRainbowkissesArbroath, UK1 Threads 29 Posts
Somtimes it does work as i know people it has worked out for....
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Mar 27, 2006 2:10 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
zonnetje
zonnetjezonnetjeLingolsheim, Grand Est France2 Threads 144 Posts
phoning helps..I live in Europe and I exchange telephone numbers with a a Canadian...
Although you have to stay lucid...there is still an ocean between the two of you. Don't expect too much!
Good luck!
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Mar 27, 2006 2:11 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
CautiousSingle
CautiousSingleCautiousSingleSouthern, British Columbia Canada4 Threads 697 Posts
Not to sound negative - just free advice
Make sure you both have the same expectations throughout the next year.
I also agree with fucina - a year is a long time
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Mar 27, 2006 2:11 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
777kev
777kev777kevhamilton, Canada2 Threads 125 Posts
I think it may be to hard! but if it's ment to be ? than you never know?kev
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Mar 27, 2006 2:59 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
Catwhisperer
CatwhispererCatwhispererRaleigh, USA4 Threads 14 Posts
Hey, hey! Thanx for all the input. AND A COLD SHOWER, MOST OF THE TIMES... :( I noticed that guys were more negative about that kind of relationship, I wonder why... BUT I HAVE HOPE, CAUSE I AFTER 12 YEARS IN STATES, I STILL HAVE CONTACTS WITH MY FRIENDS BACK HOME... true, romantic involvement is different but worst case scenario will be that we will be friends with "my" guy... and what I meant by lack of time is not a lack of time for me in particular, but in general his schedule is absolutely full.
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Mar 27, 2006 5:01 PM CST HELP! how to keep a guy interested if he's an ocean away??
Kiera
KieraKieraWoodbridge, Virginia USA5 Threads 148 Posts
Unfortunately...I have no help for you...I'm having a hard enough time keeping anyone within the states interested...LOL
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