In the Old Town where I live are some Stores that carry Precious and Semi-precious Stones and just other Stuff people might find apealing. Some of them look at me with a jaundiced Eye when they see me stepping into the Store,because I am not buying,for the simple reason they haven't got what I want. When I find what it is I want I will buy. Why should it be different on this Site. I haven't found what I am looking for,maybe never will,so why should I buy anything I do not want? And I suppose many other People feel the same way. The Time I am "Wasting" is MY OWN DAMN TIME,NO ONE ELSE'S.REMEMBER THAT!!!!!!!!!!!! The Gumption of some people!
So we all get weary, and yes Fakes Phonies,and Pretenders are the bumps in the road to find the that "one".
Time Wasterss theres an issue I disagree with just because someone believes they have "invested enough time and the other feekls different is no reason to label them as such. much in the same way you are approached and you require more time then you too are a time waster also..Hop I'm getting my point across in a friendly manner.
Fakes Phonies,and Pretenders are in all realms of our life. Some with a more skeptical and cynical outlook can spot them right off and do not get effected by their wily ways, others well they are believers in the fantasy of Love ... I like fantasies too but I make such their written on good paper with lasting ink. check the bindings of the book before taking it home to snuggle up with.
Do I have a sincere interests in meeting someone ???YES. Do I let my desire for that overrule my common sense ?? Some will say not often enough
Time wasters can be more sincere in their search than one who looks for cliffs to jump off of .
again and again and again. but I guess they could be classified as time wasters too huh?
Best of lucj to ya in decipjering whose sincere and who is not sir. it sucks having too many times at bat and being hitless.
I have met and gone out with several guys from dating sites.
I don't go out with just anyone who asks and we have to talk or exchange emails until I feel comfortable meeting in person.
I have heard that there are both males and females that use the dating sites to talk and fantasize. Because they are not who they say they are - it is all pretend to them.
In this day of web cams it is fairly easy to see if the person is as they portray themselves to be.
I had a guy cancel on me three times. The third time I was waiting in a restaurant and he no showed (thank God I was hungry and brought a book).
I'm a time waster.........its true I could be out there right now cleaning women windshields at the gas station and do better meeting face to face then here
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