How to Talk ( Archived) (19)

Dec 14, 2007 6:43 PM CST How to Talk
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
To a woman ?

Be yourself not someone you want to be.

Is this what you woman want ?
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Dec 14, 2007 6:46 PM CST How to Talk
dogsrule
dogsruledogsruleSomewhere, Massachusetts USA16 Threads 1 Polls 435 Posts
Yes, talk to us as you would anyone.. be real, be honest and be geninue.. it works everytime..
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Dec 14, 2007 6:50 PM CST How to Talk
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
because when we find out that you haven't been yourself, it is such a let down for us...stuck
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Dec 14, 2007 7:04 PM CST How to Talk
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
doh scold professor
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Dec 14, 2007 7:45 PM CST How to Talk
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
be yourself because if you pretend to be someone that your not.......your lies will catch up with you in the end

Honesty Honesty Honesty..........key in letting someone know about you!






jm2ctongue
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Dec 14, 2007 7:45 PM CST How to Talk
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
Man
Woman

Just because of wo doesn't make her any less human. Human is a human is a human. Try talking to a cat! They're crazy!!!
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Dec 14, 2007 8:04 PM CST How to Talk
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Ditto.wave thumbs up grin
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Dec 14, 2007 8:11 PM CST How to Talk
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
While I try to put my best foot forward....I also try to be myself. A fine line~~

I've nearly always been told I'm easy to talk to (hard to believe, I know) laugh I'm good at asking open ended questions applause


So why am I here? dunno doh
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Dec 14, 2007 8:12 PM CST How to Talk
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Cause you're not somewhere elselaugh wave
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Dec 14, 2007 9:18 PM CST How to Talk
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
Just talk to another human being. The way you would like to be spoken to. Always works for me.
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Dec 14, 2007 9:24 PM CST How to Talk
all_woman
all_womanall_womandouglas, England UK9 Threads 85 Posts
defo, sometime men say things that they think you want to hear, or say what they think you need to here and all you want is someone to be there self and be honest snowman
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Dec 14, 2007 9:28 PM CST How to Talk
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
I'll have to try that confused











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Dec 14, 2007 9:34 PM CST How to Talk
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
But how up front and honest do women want men to be?

I am very honest and up front...does that scare women off? I don't sit there and spew my life story all over them, but I do tell them all pertinent info concerning who I am today.

Another question (thanks for the thread Dan...sorry if I hijack it a little). The "bad boy" gets alot of attention from women. Yet they are the ones who are usually very quiet and do not always tell the truth. And alot of women don't care if they are lied to...they keep coming back to the bad boy.

So which is it? Honesty, bad boy, or something in between?

<---sooo confused!!!confused
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Dec 14, 2007 9:46 PM CST How to Talk
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Personally, I feel all women have their own criteria by which they go by and being anyone ( someone else or yourself ) serves no purpose , assuming its someone with a mature attitude we are dealing with.

Most of us are basically looking for someone honest and genuine and can speak his mind without being rude or even creepy. I guess being yourself is the best policy, so as to find someone who is compatible with you.
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Dec 14, 2007 9:48 PM CST How to Talk
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Whewwwwwwwwwwwwww, wasn't me applause
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Dec 14, 2007 9:52 PM CST How to Talk
all_woman
all_womanall_womandouglas, England UK9 Threads 85 Posts
naa it wasnt you. your probably one of the honest guyswink yay
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Dec 14, 2007 9:53 PM CST How to Talk
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
I totally agree with the not wanting to have your life story strewn around the web for people to read. Definitely, its personal and is better shared in private with someone worthy.

The bad Boy thing is what i have come across .. now.. here.. but i guess all women do not like it.
Not all women are honest either is true to a great extent for many of the same reasons as men and some out of hurt and insecurity.

So, it boils down to what you want from the person and the relationship if there is going to be. But this is my personal opinion.


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Dec 14, 2007 9:55 PM CST How to Talk
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Learn to say, "Yes Mam!"rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 14, 2007 10:00 PM CST How to Talk
Softly_Me
Softly_MeSoftly_MeColumbus, Ohio USA10 Threads 388 Posts
Yes. Then we can weed u out if necessary!

I went out with this guy who just blasted his ex - like if she were there he would choke her to death. Talked about what a victim he'd been.

Real friggin' turn off.

I think the key of how much to tell is to allow the conversation to flow. Listen, talk, listen.

You know, we women adore men who listen with more than just their ears.

Well, sorry. I can't speak for all women.

What a great thread Dknew!



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