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Dec 28, 2007 10:07 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
motodad116
motodad116motodad116Meridian, Idaho USA3 Threads 114 Posts
Hatred is a very strong emotion, Why do we want to hate the one we love?frustrated
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Dec 28, 2007 10:11 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Pptrixibell
PptrixibellPptrixibellEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK5 Threads 1,903 Posts
Not sure if I hate anyone...dislike intensely oh yes!!

Life is far too short to hate I think....handshake
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Dec 28, 2007 10:11 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
motodad116
motodad116motodad116Meridian, Idaho USA3 Threads 114 Posts
When breaking up with someone I want to know what causes us to want to hate that person rather than just letting go and enjoying what we had? Why is it that we revert to anger?
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Dec 28, 2007 10:16 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Pptrixibell
PptrixibellPptrixibellEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK5 Threads 1,903 Posts
I think that possibly....we can't believe that the person we loved so dearly and trusted soo much has hurt us in such away...I remember feeling like my heart had been ripped out...and then I seen how he seemed to move on so much quicker and easier than what I did...it made me very angry.....it seems to be a human natural process of licking our wounds...


God that was deep!!!
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Dec 28, 2007 10:17 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
FEAR!!!!!!!!!!!! Simple..
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Dec 28, 2007 10:22 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I don't hate the one I love. I don't love anyone. But I do HATE GW Bush
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Dec 28, 2007 10:23 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
anger is in all of us--- if you choose to use this emotion that has come from within you -possibly from past issues that have not been dealt--- then the barriers of indifference will ,I believe be raised and or reinforced
--- choose the love - keep it fresh energies and alive using the pain to fuel it -- it aint easy love never is - at the very least it will keep your love pure
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Dec 28, 2007 10:24 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Pptrixibell
PptrixibellPptrixibellEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK5 Threads 1,903 Posts
I don't love anyone either Ship.........crying

I do love my family but they don't count in this forum!
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Dec 28, 2007 10:26 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Now Ship.... that and $1.00 might get you a cup of hot coffee....grin
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Dec 28, 2007 10:27 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
defense mechanism. the "hate" will diminish over time... eventually you'll hit acceptance and you will be able to reflect on the good times you had....
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Dec 28, 2007 10:28 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
not at Starbucks...lol
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Dec 28, 2007 10:29 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Pptrixibell
PptrixibellPptrixibellEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK5 Threads 1,903 Posts
Indy I think that's the point I tried to make...but you put it so much better!!

What a guy!!

wave
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Dec 28, 2007 11:06 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
i seldom use the word hate...it gives me a bad feeling. I save it for something that is worse then the worst, so its for that time...so far i havent used it much, cuz things could always be worse..

I just dont like things or ppl alot sometimes..or i think i almost hate it, but not quite..
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Dec 28, 2007 11:12 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Love and hate are part of the same emotion...It's easy to become angry and hate the fact that we couldn't make the other person love us...it's a loss of control and allowing the other person to have control over our feelings and emotions, but really the hatred says more about us then it does them...It says we still have some strong feelings and emotions for that person that we haven't dealt with yet...It's only when we feel nothing (on an emotional level) that we can honestly say we have moved on!!!!!!

conversing conversing wine
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Dec 28, 2007 11:38 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
motodad116
motodad116motodad116Meridian, Idaho USA3 Threads 114 Posts
Thank U Huggz - I needed that one.handshake comfort
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Dec 28, 2007 11:40 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
Sometimes we get pissed on or pissed off.Life is Like a Box of Chocolates.
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Dec 28, 2007 11:41 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
hug comfort hug
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Dec 28, 2007 11:43 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
hug
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Dec 28, 2007 11:55 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
There isn't anyone I hate.. (except Brussels sprouts.. if they count) barf
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Dec 28, 2007 11:58 PM CST Why do we want to hate...
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
comfort
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