Hanging In The Girlz Room.... ( Archived) (50)

Jan 2, 2008 8:49 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
:: quickly saves Lena from a flaming:: giggle

not all men Lena.. just *Some* laugh
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Jan 2, 2008 8:53 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
haha I know i know but it gets me soo frustrated grrrrrrrrrrrr that people would do that.


My lil sister sat by the phone all day christmas waiting to here from her dad and she got nothing and now her bday is in 10 days and she's so upset because she knows she will be let down.
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Jan 2, 2008 8:56 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Grrr very mad

things like that are horrible aren't they.

I remember when mine where younger.. and their dad would arrange to take them out at the weekend..

They would be excited and go on and on and on about it all week.. and on the day, they would be up ready, and sat by the window..


waiting.. and waiting.. and waiting..


Until *maybe* 3-4hrs later he would call me to say *Sorry .. something came up*..


Then left me to explain to them (AGAIN) why daddy didn't show up. blues very mad
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Jan 2, 2008 8:58 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
I'm so glad i figured out what kind of dad my ex would've been before he hurt my baby. sigh
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Jan 2, 2008 9:01 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
DizzyDi
DizzyDiDizzyDiLancashire, England UK26 Threads 1 Polls 1,761 Posts
Do I know that feelingfrustrated but I don't think all men are like that there are some good ones left that deserve the right to be called Dadcheers
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Jan 2, 2008 9:08 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
hole
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Jan 2, 2008 9:10 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Absolutely Dizzy... I know some fantastic dads.. that are everything you could hope for as a child.

thumbs up thumbs up
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Jan 2, 2008 9:14 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
I met a great guy thats really stepping up to the plate as long as i want him their and it was something that i wasn't expecting at all. I didn't think i'd be seeing anyone for a while especially w/ a kid now but he doesnt care one bit it isn't his.
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Jan 2, 2008 9:17 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yep I have a friend that happened too.
They met when she was about 7mths! pregnant.. fell madly in love.. went throo the rest of it together.. and they now have two more children and have been together 8yrs. thumbs up wine
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Jan 2, 2008 9:24 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
Now here is where the fun part comes in got a letter from the ex about a week ago saying he's coming up and wants to talk.

so front row seats are being sold for the war of the worlds part 2 and your all invited
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Jan 2, 2008 9:25 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
I think what's hard though.. is that it only takes a few bad apples to spoil the fruit bowl..

There are far more nice men.. dads.. boyfriends.. etc out there.. than there are crappy ones.

It's just the crappy ones you tend to here more about.
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Jan 2, 2008 9:27 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
you know what tho Lena.. it's not even WORTH arguing about.. why waste your time?

Just say what you want to say.. let him say what HE wants to say.. and come up with something
in the middle.

it's not worth the hassle or heartache.. it takes farrrrrrr more effort to be falling out with someone that it does to just let it go.

Be strong girlie.. say you piece.. listen to his.. then keeep movvving. wine
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Jan 2, 2008 9:28 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
Have you seen the will smith movie Hitch... I completly believe in what he says when he talks about the guy that was trying to hire him just to get laid he says guys like him is what makes falling in love so hard and its true. Women are afraid to get screwed over by the next looser
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Jan 2, 2008 9:30 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
In the end those who are absent are the ones who are at a loss

...in the meantime you fill them with all they need,that anly being of love and they walk with there heads held high.

What goes around comes around and putting forth positive enrgy in what is is more important that that of what you can not change.

JMO

Good day ladies and lite be with you...:)
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Jan 2, 2008 9:31 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yep.. but it's the same for men too.. plenty of them get hurt by crappy women..

and are as afraid of being hurt again as some women.

We can't tar them all with the same brush..

nice kind men.. nice kind women. crappy men.. crappy women.
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Jan 2, 2008 9:31 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
sigh why can't everyone be nice and good people.. damnit.
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Jan 2, 2008 9:32 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Helloo Starlite..

Yep I agree with the missing out part..

I think ANY parent male or female.. that chooses NOT to be involved.. (or are.. but as little as possible).. with their child/children.. ARE losing out.
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Jan 2, 2008 9:35 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Well that would be good.. Ideally yes.. but the world would be pretty boring then maybe lol

you think.. if EVERYONE was nice.. probably most of use wouldn't even be here..

we are all messed up in some way or another.


People around the world wouldnt say and do half the things they do if we were ALL nice.

its the dark light.. good bad thing. Balance.
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Jan 2, 2008 9:37 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Reading some out of initial curiosity, I could, through my sisters experiences relate to some posts here and from other women.
Perhaps you should repeat this same thread but for all the children that survived the types of fathers described on these posts. I would imagine there are a lot...
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Jan 2, 2008 9:39 AM CST Hanging In The Girlz Room....
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Solitaire.. hellooo wave

good idea. but I think for a lot of people it's a very hurtful hard thing to have to think about..

It's all very well us talking about how *Some* men/women have treated our kids..


But I don't think it's so easy to talk about it when it's YOU.
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