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Jan 18, 2008 8:42 PM CST .................GQ.........................
capigirl
capigirlcapigirlSan Diego, USA49 Threads 157 Posts
WOULD MEN HAVE THE SAME RESPECT FOR THE WOMEN IF SHE SLEPT WITH HIM ON THE FIRST DATE RATHER THAN FEW DATES LATER?

THIS WAS MY DEBATE WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS TODAY, 3 OF US SAID :
"NO, MEN WILL SLEEP WITH U ON THE FIRST DATE IF YOU ARE STUPID ENOUGH TO GO THERE.

2 OF THEM SAID:" IT DOESN'T MATTER, 1ST DATE OR NOT.


I WOULD LIKE THE GENT'S OPINION ON THIS MATTER, TO ME IF A WOMAN GOES THERE, I REALLY DON'T THINK THE MAN WOULD RESPECT HER AS MUCH, AGAIN THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION,

*********** WHAT'S YOURS? ************************

dunno
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Jan 19, 2008 2:01 PM CST .................GQ.........................
st712
st712st712Cheshire, UK149 Posts
WOULD MEN HAVE THE SAME RESPECT FOR THE WOMEN IF SHE SLEPT WITH HIM ON THE FIRST DATE RATHER THAN FEW DATES LATER?





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Jan 19, 2008 2:04 PM CST .................GQ.........................
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
If it's someone I had alot of communication with before the date, It wouldn't change my opinion of her in the least.
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Jan 19, 2008 2:13 PM CST .................GQ.........................
I think it really all depends on the man and woman in question. If there is definitely something there between them, then I don't think it would make any difference.

Mind you, who am I to talk! I am on a singles site!

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Jan 19, 2008 2:19 PM CST .................GQ.........................
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
Well would a woman want to date a man who sleeps with her on the first date.devil
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Jan 19, 2008 2:48 PM CST .................GQ.........................
BobBilly
BobBillyBobBillyGalway, Ireland4 Threads 77 Posts
Some people, male or female, will never have any respect for anybody no matter what. Some people might sleep with someone on a first date and still respect them. If I were on a first date with a woman who wanted to get funky I'd just make my apologies and go. I wouldn't judge them as being either good or bad, rather simply not what I'm looking for.
Do what you feel is right, not what you think may be right for the other person. If they respect you they will appreciate that. If they don't then kick them away, and hard.
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Jan 19, 2008 2:51 PM CST .................GQ.........................
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
capigirl: WOULD MEN HAVE THE SAME RESPECT FOR THE WOMEN IF SHE SLEPT WITH HIM ON THE FIRST DATE RATHER THAN FEW DATES LATER?

THIS WAS MY DEBATE WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS TODAY, 3 OF US SAID :
"NO, MEN WILL SLEEP WITH U ON THE FIRST DATE IF YOU ARE STUPID ENOUGH TO GO THERE.

2 OF THEM SAID:" IT DOESN'T MATTER, 1ST DATE OR NOT.I WOULD LIKE THE GENT'S OPINION ON THIS MATTER, TO ME IF A WOMAN GOES THERE, I REALLY DON'T THINK THE MAN WOULD RESPECT HER AS MUCH, AGAIN THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION,

*********** WHAT'S YOURS? ************************


If you slept with me on the first date, I would measure it by knock out power or whether cupid struck me with his bow and arrow. The last time and I guess, first time, I was ever in love, was after having made love with my last girlfriend, on our first love......
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Jan 19, 2008 2:53 PM CST .................GQ.........................
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
capigirl: WOULD MEN HAVE THE SAME RESPECT FOR THE WOMEN IF SHE SLEPT WITH HIM ON THE FIRST DATE RATHER THAN FEW DATES LATER?

THIS WAS MY DEBATE WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS TODAY, 3 OF US SAID :
"NO, MEN WILL SLEEP WITH U ON THE FIRST DATE IF YOU ARE STUPID ENOUGH TO GO THERE.

2 OF THEM SAID:" IT DOESN'T MATTER, 1ST DATE OR NOT.I WOULD LIKE THE GENT'S OPINION ON THIS MATTER, TO ME IF A WOMAN GOES THERE, I REALLY DON'T THINK THE MAN WOULD RESPECT HER AS MUCH, AGAIN THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION,

*********** WHAT'S YOURS? ************************


Anyone that sleeps with someone on a first date and then has no respect for them because of that is a complete hypocrite....What does that say about the person who was willing to jump into bed with the other person to begin with????? I think it says...more about them...like..."I'm willing to get it where and when I can"...I don't care who you are"!!!!!!!

Sorry...If you have that attitude...I wouldn't wanna date ya anyway!!!!!!!



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Jan 19, 2008 4:16 PM CST .................GQ.........................
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
xenos: Please turn your caps off! It looks like you are shouting!

well in answer to your very loud thread... it makes no difference if you have been in contact for a while!

and... I wouldn't let a girl sleep with me on the first date as I value myself and wouldn't want to be seen as cheap!



Perhaps she wants to be heard grin
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Jan 19, 2008 4:37 PM CST .................GQ.........................
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
First off if he didn't he's the wrong guy for me, how could he have respect for himself and lose respect for me when we both did the same thing?

I think it depends on the connection they have, when it's love at first sight, yes it does happen, it's so amazing... I was with a man, who I love to this day, for 3years. The first night we met we stayed up all night talking, then drove to the beach to watch the sunrise, then drove back to his house and stayed in bed together for 3 days and nights...total respect!
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Jan 19, 2008 4:54 PM CST .................GQ.........................
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
I'm saving myself for someone special.blushing





















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Jan 19, 2008 4:56 PM CST .................GQ.........................
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Dknew: If it's someone I had alot of communication with before the date, It wouldn't change my opinion of her in the least.


I agree thumbs up

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Jan 19, 2008 5:06 PM CST .................GQ.........................
redbellypirhana
redbellypirhanaredbellypirhanaPhoenix, Arizona USA4 Threads 793 Posts
It depends, if the night is totally going in the right direction and the connection is there, go for it, if not then don't. I picked up a girl a one time, hit it off, broke up with her 3 years later, so it all depends...head banger head banger head banger
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Jan 19, 2008 8:46 PM CST .................GQ.........................
capigirl
capigirlcapigirlSan Diego, USA49 Threads 157 Posts
xenos: Please turn your caps off! It looks like you are shouting!

well in answer to your very loud thread... it makes no difference if you have been in contact for a while!

and... I wouldn't let a girl sleep with me on the first date as I value myself and wouldn't want to be seen as cheap!
sorry guys, I
won't use caps anymore.blushing
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