I've been like that for a few weeks, but for me I think it is all the stuff with my Liver Cancer buddy.. I know it's knocked me sideways.. I just feel like someone kicked the wind out of my sails.
At the moment.. It (if you hadn't noticed haha) Is making me far less tolerant of people complaining and 'woe is me-ing'
'Have you got incurable, rapidly moving Liver Cancer? Have you been given a short time to live?
No? then shut the hell up and be GRATEFUL you can carry on LIVING!
(ermm not you Trudy BTW haha).. It's just how I'm feeling lately.
On the one hand getting to know Mr McMaybe is giving me lots of nice feelings.. (haha I omit the good words!) and Just about since we started talking (was when we first realised there was something wrong with Trish).. So in the background (and foreground- it switches I notice) I have the feeling of being in la la land.. and at the same time being completely heartbroken about Trish.
Just like me meeting Mr McMaybe (next weekend!).. I'm sooo looking forward to meeting him, and spending time with him to see what happens... and on the very same trip I have to go and do the one thing I've been dreading.. seeing my best friend for what could be the very last time.
Soooooooo.. I'm all over the frickin place at the moment.. (if you hadn't noticed)
Good - Bad
Happy - Sad
Thrilled and heartbroken..
Two complete opposites playing tug with my feeling.
I need chocolate, a hug.. a spare liver .. a jet.. and a lobotomy!
Hey eupheeoooo...
seems many times the good and bad follow eachother, maybe thats what gets us through the hard times, knowing the good is right around the corner. I wish you much fun and am excited for your trip to his your guy friend and wish you many hugs and love as u visit Trish....
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
blue_eyed_blonde: Hey eupheeoooo...
seems many times the good and bad follow eachother, maybe thats what gets us through the hard times, knowing the good is right around the corner. I wish you much fun and am excited for your trip to his your guy friend and wish you many hugs and love as u visit Trish....
Aww thank you Trudy, I agree good and bad follow each other.. But I'm not finding it so easy when they are both happening at the same time. It's hard to know what the hell im meant to be feeling at the moment.
PILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK4,804 posts
Claayer: Hellooo Trudy
I've been like that for a few weeks, but for me I think it is all the stuff with my Liver Cancer buddy.. I know it's knocked me sideways.. I just feel like someone kicked the wind out of my sails.
At the moment.. It (if you hadn't noticed haha) Is making me far less tolerant of people complaining and 'woe is me-ing'
'Have you got incurable, rapidly moving Liver Cancer? Have you been given a short time to live?
No? then shut the hell up and be GRATEFUL you can carry on LIVING!
Nicely said by the smiley lady in the hat. Please people enjoy what you got you don't know whats round the corner
Claayer: Aww thank you Trudy, I agree good and bad follow each other.. But I'm not finding it so easy when they are both happening at the same time. It's hard to know what the hell im meant to be feeling at the moment.
having them at the same time bites!!! always ways to look at it, but none really justify it. maybe to ease off the hardship your going to be going to go through....i dont know. but i do know ur a strong lady and have the ability to take this in stride and help your friend in her time of need....all my best thought will be with...
PILIPALA: Nicely said by the smiley lady in the hat. Please people enjoy what you got you don't know whats round the corner
I agree...too often we take life and people for granted and then life lowers an unexpected boom and then we have regrets...Live so you don't have any!!!!!!!
we all have crap in our lives to deal with, when i first came on the forums i could forget about it relax, and have some fun, but now it is hard to find a thread where people's different views and opinions are treated with respected and courtesy. just my opinion
I haven't been on here that long. However, I have noticed a bit of what you are refering to. I just look past it and hope that it'll all work itself out. Negative waves get negative waves. Personally, I like to stay out of all that and just be my usual positive self. Kinda like you T. Maybe it is the weather or the season. I can't wait for spring! These short days and cold can get me down a little yanno...
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Oh yeah.. and aside from me rattling on about myself.. I had noticed that too.
Hi Dan