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Feb 4, 2008 1:56 PM CST If you could...
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: Lol, yes....I forgot I put that on there

What I meant is that prefer men in there late 20's to mid 30's... boys, not men, my age are not adults at all.

I'm doing good today...Went to the doctor and found out that the lump in my breast isn't cancerous! YAY for me!!!


Glad to hear you had some good news.. I know that must have been a relief.. Oh and yeah I guess my idea for a date was kinda of boring wasn't...laugh
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Feb 4, 2008 1:59 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: Okay? Glad I could amuse you today... I'm not about hostility, I just didn't think 3 meaningless threads in one day was much, but that's fine what you think. I'm Leah, and it was nice meeting you.


adult women know that another womans sharing and clarity is not hostility and that that reaction might be more about
ourself than the other person...worth some consideration anyway.

im sure youd find any woman that didnt mommy you here
a nuisance on some lvel
youre one who is here for all the man attention you can get

no worries,youll get it

its all good
it all educates us
its all beneficial eventually

which is, after all the point of life?

hostile?
why would a stranger in a little box be worth an expenditure of hostility?
dunno
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Feb 4, 2008 1:59 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
Daniel4021: Glad to hear you had some good news.. I know that must have been a relief.. Oh and yeah I guess my idea for a date was kinda of boring wasn't...


No, not boring at all silly! Boring is not having a date...sleep
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Feb 4, 2008 1:59 PM CST If you could...
innocentkid
innocentkidinnocentkidcolombo, Western Sri Lanka1 Polls 59 Posts
lilwhiskeygirl20: Lol, yes....I forgot I put that on there

What I meant is that prefer men in there late 20's to mid 30's... boys, not men, my age are not adults at all.

I'm doing good today...Went to the doctor and found out that the lump in my breast isn't cancerous! YAY for me!!!


hi....lilwhisky....wave grin

i'm a really good guy...ask anybodylaugh

you are soooo pretty ...like a morning sun flowerblushing
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Feb 4, 2008 2:06 PM CST If you could...
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Alright ladies... come on now, let's please stop this sensless arguning...

As for being dateless, know how that feels... Haven't been on one since May 11th of last year.., but not really looking right now...
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Feb 4, 2008 2:13 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


other 'girls' on here?
many of us really have come to enjoy and even rely on each other.
but how would you know that? a miss on the 'ouch me meter'

a common form of defense is exaggerating what was said
no one mentioned that ugly word
and you dont entertain me
as entertaining the women around here is not your goal.
and thats really ok, tho my opinion is of no consequence of course.

ive no need to get ruffled about what goes on online
but i do sometimes make suggestions and try to be kind.

sweetie you are so blind, angry which is always hurt and fearful
we all have our times-its the human condition.
enjoy your adolesence and i mean this in all support
it all gets better

your perception of my input has been so off the mark
but no harm no foul

i should at least receive a flower or something-
i am responsible after all, for the current attention youre getting
youre not the only one around here that misunderstands
the dynamics between women on occasion,
and some practice to use that misunderstanding as an opportunity.

but youll be learning that for yourself soon enough.


cheers
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Feb 4, 2008 2:15 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
Daniel4021: Alright ladies... come on now, let's please stop this sensless arguning...

As for being dateless, know how that feels... Haven't been on one since May 11th of last year.., but not really looking right now...


Random dates feel emotionless... I want to find a good guy to start a relationship with, unfortunately meeting him means still dating losers until he comes into my path...it's a conundrum... dating makes me feel worthless, but not dating means not finding the one possibly...

I guess I'll just keep living each day as it comescheering
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Feb 4, 2008 2:17 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
fyi
as if youd ever consider it true
not one insult have i interjected.
im pretty sure-not one.

shame you perceived it that way.
oh well...

daniel please stop using my interactions with others
to further your image or self image or whatever it is
as the white night
speaking of boring
honey its worn out

youre not a moderator or even a moral compass of
what is or isnt appropriate behavior
none of us are

also you have previously committed to not doing this,
regarding me anyway, so i ask that you honor that.
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Feb 4, 2008 2:18 PM CST If you could...
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
mindfful: other 'girls' on here?
many of us really have come to enjoy and even rely on each other.
but how would you know that? a miss on the 'ouch me meter'

a common form of defense is exaggerating what was said
no one mentioned that ugly word
and you dont entertain me
as entertaining the women around here is not your goal.
and thats really ok, tho my opinion is of no consequence of course.

ive no need to get ruffled about what goes on online
but i do sometimes make suggestions and try to be kind.

sweetie you are so blind, angry which is always hurt and fearful
we all have our times-its the human condition.
enjoy your adolesence and i mean this in all support
it all gets better

your perception of my input has been so off the mark
but no harm no foul

i should at least receive a flower or something-
i am responsible after all, for the current attention youre getting
youre not the only one around here that misunderstands
the dynamics between women on occasion,
and some practice to use that misunderstanding as an opportunity.

but youll be learning that for yourself soon enough.


Just to let you know when I posted, it was I read what the Op, had posted, and was responding to her question.. but I am wondering how you believe you are resposable for the attention she is getting?
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Feb 4, 2008 2:18 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
mindfful: other 'girls' on here?
many of us really have come to enjoy and even rely on each other.
but how would you know that? a miss on the 'ouch me meter'

a common form of defense is exaggerating what was said
no one mentioned that ugly word
and you dont entertain me
as entertaining the women around here is not your goal.
and thats really ok, tho my opinion is of no consequence of course.

ive no need to get ruffled about what goes on online
but i do sometimes make suggestions and try to be kind.

sweetie you are so blind, angry which is always hurt and fearful
we all have our times-its the human condition.
enjoy your adolesence and i mean this in all support
it all gets better

your perception of my input has been so off the mark
but no harm no foul

i should at least receive a flower or something-
i am responsible after all, for the current attention youre getting
youre not the only one around here that misunderstands
the dynamics between women on occasion,
and some practice to use that misunderstanding as an opportunity.

but youll be learning that for yourself soon enough.


just so you know, you are not responsible for any attention. I've talked to Daniel before. I'm done wasting my time with you snyde remarks.
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Feb 4, 2008 2:21 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
mindfful: fyi
as if youd ever consider it true
not one insult have i interjected.
im pretty sure-not one.

shame you perceived it that way.
oh well...

daniel please stop using my interactions with others
to further your image or self image or whatever it is
as the white night
speaking of boring
honey its worn out

youre not a moderator or even a moral compass of
what is or isnt appropriate behavior
none of us are

also you have previously committed to not doing this,
regarding me anyway, so i ask that you honor that.


My dear sad lonely old lady,

I believe when you make the assumption public that I am here for male attention and not friends, that is an insult...

Go crawl back in the hole you came from.kiss
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Feb 4, 2008 2:40 PM CST If you could...
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
mindfful: fyi
as if youd ever consider it true
not one insult have i interjected.
im pretty sure-not one.

shame you perceived it that way.
oh well...

daniel please stop using my interactions with others
to further your image or self image or whatever it is
as the white night
speaking of boring
honey its worn out

youre not a moderator or even a moral compass of
what is or isnt appropriate behavior
none of us are

also you have previously committed to not doing this,
regarding me anyway, so i ask that you honor that.


I believe I was addressing you both, and I am not putting up an act, I am the same outside of the forums as I am in them... and I didn't tell you, I asked nicely... it's up to both of you if you want to stop or not.. but knowing you from what I have seen on the forums, you are always finding thing to pick apart about someone, and you almost always come accross in antagonistic way to most people.. if you are really trying to give advice, maybe you should be a little more tactful in the way you give..

And as you are so famous for saying..... JMO
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Feb 4, 2008 2:42 PM CST If you could...
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Daniel4021: I believe I was addressing you both, and I am not putting up an act, I am the same outside of the forums as I am in them... and I didn't tell you, I asked nicely... it's up to both of you if you want to stop or not.. but knowing you from what I have seen on the forums, you are always finding thing to pick apart about someone, and you almost always come accross in antagonistic way to most people.. if you are really trying to give advice, maybe you should be a little more tactful in the way you give..

And as you are so famous for saying..... JMO
thumbs up
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Feb 4, 2008 2:45 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
what a cute club
do you have a secret handshake yet?

youve so misunderstood
youve been so insulting
and what you think is snide is just what you dont agree with
thats your deal makes me no nevermind
yeah im an old lady and i know who i am and i like me

enuf others in my life like me for my comfort
and my intention was not to cause discomfort
but no matter what i say you will insist that it was

dunno

thats more about you than about me
ive not been angry nor will i become angry
nor mean nor degrading-youve already crossed all of those lines.

may your week old friendship last a lifetime
and bloom as nature intends

none of it was my business and its clear
youre not interested in any input from a woman
least of all an old lady-

party on wayne

thumbs up
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Feb 4, 2008 2:48 PM CST If you could...
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Daniel4021: I believe I was addressing you both, and I am not putting up an act, I am the same outside of the forums as I am in them... and I didn't tell you, I asked nicely... it's up to both of you if you want to stop or not.. but knowing you from what I have seen on the forums, you are always finding thing to pick apart about someone, and you almost always come accross in antagonistic way to most people.. if you are really trying to give advice, maybe you should be a little more tactful in the way you give..

And as you are so famous for saying..... JMO


dood
i refuse to say JMO at the end of a post
i think it is nullifying

you may split hairs and use semantics all you like
regarding whether you were talking to one or both of us
but the fact remains you said to me you would
refrain from that activity if it would involve me?

and as far as saying im antagonistic-that too is opposite
what youve said to me privately.

this is ridiculous and yes of course its all my fault.
i hereby cease and desist.

handshake
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Feb 4, 2008 2:51 PM CST If you could...
innocentkid
innocentkidinnocentkidcolombo, Western Sri Lanka1 Polls 59 Posts
yeaah...i know personally danny and joanne are peace makers. they never fuel the fire like the most of the others in this CS.bouquet











BUT I must say this........i didn't see this type of advicing for both parties at the very same time happening before.....(not from joanne and danny)

i speak openlyangel devil angel
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Feb 4, 2008 2:54 PM CST If you could...
lilwhiskeygirl20
lilwhiskeygirl20lilwhiskeygirl20Bothell, Washington USA12 Threads 74 Posts
innocentkid: yeaah...i know personally danny and joanne are peace makers. they never fuel the fire like the most of the others in this CS. BUT I must say this........i didn't see this type of advicing for both parties at the very same time happening before.....(not from joanne and danny)

i speak openly


i think ill just stay out of all of the forums from now on...
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Feb 4, 2008 2:54 PM CST If you could...
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
mindfful: dood
i refuse to say JMO at the end of a post
i think it is nullifying

you may split hairs and use semantics all you like
regarding whether you were talking to one or both of us
but the fact remains you said to me you would
refrain from that activity if it would involve me?

and as far as saying im antagonistic-that too is opposite
what youve said to me privately.

this is ridiculous and yes of course its all my fault.
i hereby cease and desist.


I know what I said to you privately, but I believe I have already strayed long enough away from the topic of this thread.. So if there is anything else to say it can be handled in email..
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Feb 4, 2008 2:55 PM CST If you could...
innocentkid
innocentkidinnocentkidcolombo, Western Sri Lanka1 Polls 59 Posts
mindfful: dood
i refuse to say JMO at the end of a post
i think it is nullifying

you may split hairs and use semantics all you like
regarding whether you were talking to one or both of us
but the fact remains you said to me you would
refrain from that activity if it would involve me?

and as far as saying im antagonistic-that too is opposite
what youve said to me privately.

this is ridiculous and yes of course its all my fault.
i hereby cease and desist.


THANKS GOD....THIS TIME YOU DID THE CORRECT THINGbouquet heart wings yay
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